What exactly is it that confidence breeds? Is it success, is it character, is it confidence? First off, let's talk about the word confidence. Confidence isn't about being obnoxious, nor is about being pompous, but confidence is about believing in yourself! It's about trust. It's about trusting yourself to carry on with whatever decision you just made and accept the decision the was the right one. It's about shooting for the stars, and if you fall down, you'll get back up and try again. It's something everyone should have. It's something everyone needs.
Guy's, there is no such thing as a girl who is out of your league. That's not right, you are equals. You're on each other's levels. Don't ever let that be a barrier for anything you do.
If you want to be an astronaut, have the confidence that you can be an astronaut, and nothing is going to stop you from doing so.
So, what does confidence breed? It breeds confidence, success, and character. If you are confident in decisions you make, then you will be successful. It's important to show people how confident you are in your work. With confidence, comes more confidence. If you are successful with something, you will become even more confident with your next decision. And finally, confidence breeds character. Confidence is an asset to your personality. Confidence shapes who you are. If you are not confident with your body, you will shelter yourself, which becomes a part of your personality. So, be willing to put yourself out there, and whatever you do in life, be confident because that confidence becomes your character, or who you are.
I've decided to start sort of a project... I am going on walks with friends and picking out some of the most important things we talk about, at least from my personal view point. It's not going to be about our talks, because those are personal, and confidential, but it will be about some parts of what we talked about. For instance, tonight on our walk, one person said you needed confidence to do whatever it is he was talking about, so I wrote about what confidence meant to me. Pretty simple really... anyway, this is day one!
These walks, there guys only. It may sound a little non manly, but certain things get said that not everyone can know. It's a version of 'girl talk' except with guys. It really truly amazing to be able to go on a walk and just speak your mind and not have anyone care about what you say. It's a time when you don't get judged by anyone. It's peaceful! It's a time to clear your mind and not worry about anything. No homework, no girls, no parents, just friends who you can talk to. Don't get me wrong, we talk about all the above, but it's just you and your guy friends talking. So these walks, there sweet. If you don't go for a walk with your buddies, you should. And don't worry, if you didn't get the chance to talk about something, there is always next time!
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