I think I have figured out why I take so long to write in between posts. I don't have anything to write about. Honestly, how many times can I write about girls and my views on relationships before it gets old? I've already met my limit. I think about writing everyday, and most of the time I do, it's just in my mind. It gets harder and harder to sit down to write about my views on the world. I could easily sit here and write about what is going on in the world of sports. I could talk about Cliff Lee going to the Phillies, Carl Crawford going to the Red Sox, the Cavs laying an egg against the Heat, how Duke is by far the best basketball team in the country, and even about how Mark Cuban wants to explore an alternative to the BCS system in college football. I could do all those things, but it wouldn't set me apart. Why read my stuff when you can read Bill Simmons' column? Truth is, I just want to give my point of view, and no, I'm not writing about sports in this post.
I've been thinking about something a lot lately. I'm not trying to figure out the meaning of life, but I'm trying to find out the most important thing in life. We can start with family. Mine is my base. My rock. I know that no matter what I do, I can absolutely count on them to be there. Regardless of how many times I argue and get into physical altercations with my brother, I know that he will do anything for me, and vice versa. There are three girls in my life that mean everything to me. My two sisters are very different from each other, and me, but we are all so close. Whenever I need something, I go directly to them. My mom is the most amazing person I know. She is a teacher, and I love her to death. She raised four kids on a teacher's salary single-handedly. I respect her in so many ways, I can't even describe them in words.
So many people are worried about getting the good grades, and getting their GPA up. Personally, I think it's ridiculous. There was a time in my life, when grades were everything. As soon as I came home from school I did my homework, and I never went outside to play until my homework was finished and 100% correct. But, when I got older I realized there was so much more to life. I kind of look at it this way: I can get straight A's every quarter. It's not that I purposefully don't, it's just that I focus on other things. For instance, I try and build 10 relationships a quarter. I think one strong relationship will go a lot further in life than an 'A' that I got in Algebra class in college. 10 relationships in 10 weeks. That's a heck of a quarter. That's a successful quarter for me.
I had a talk with my brother about money earlier in the day, and he said money is everything. Don't get me wrong, money makes life a lot better because you can do things with it that are fun. But, money is not everything. Money is 1/10 of life. My brother thinks I'm flawed and crazy because I said I think relationships are more important than money. He went on to talk about how you need money to support your family once you get into that relationship. I quickly stopped him. A relationship doesn't just involve someone who you are going to spend the rest of your life with. What about friends? Colleagues? Family? Personally I try my hardest not to burn any bridges in life because I know that at any moment I could need someone to lean on. To me, relationships are my life. Each of my friends has a different relationship with me. I cherish that about life. It's not the same thing every day. Different people have made an impact on me, on my life, that I will carry with me until the day I die.
I'm not here to say that you're idea of the most important thing in life is wrong, I'm just saying, you can't discard what relationships do for you. Sometimes you cry, laugh, and then cry because you laugh. I was asked a question the other day. Who can you count on if you can't count on your best friend? Well, I don't really know that answer. The easy answer is family, but that question is deep. The answer is going to be different for everyone. Some will say their parents, brothers, sisters, God. Everyone needs a friend. You can't have a friend, if you can't be a friend. Build those relationships with people, mend the ones that have gone south, and cherish the ones that are close to your heart.
I guess the way I look at it is, when I die, I hope I'm not judged by how much money I either made, or didn't make. I hope I'm judged by the amount of people that I have touched in my lifetime. You don't even have to do anything great in your lifetime to make an impact in somebody else's. At the end of the day, I don't want to be great, or make a lot of money, I just want to have people that I can talk to, hang out with, and love.
Love is such a strong word that people are so afraid to use it, but to be honest, there are so many people that I love. If one of them died tomorrow, I would be lost without them. I think it's very important to let them know. Don't hold back. Tell you're best friend you love them. Tell your brother you love him. I don't care when, or who you tell, just tell them.
"Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art... It has no survival value; rather is one of those things that give value to survival." - C.S. Lewis
December 16, 2010
November 2, 2010
Ode to the Nice Guys
Hello world. It is officially November, and it has been almost exactly a month since my last post. I'm not too happy about that, but I was fairly busy, so hopefully November marks a new era of updating this blog.
Things I'm going to talk about in this post will include: Twitter, Donovan Mcnabb, Derek Jeter, The World Series, Tiger Woods, and also a little about nice guys.
I have always been opposed to getting involved in the Twitter community. There is something about the whole tweeting thing that isn't attractive. Actually, I could not have been more wrong. My friends set me up a Twitter account, and I have been religiously tweeting my soul away. Twitter is just another social network that sucks the time in the day right out from under your feet. But,I can't get enough of it, so let the day be wasted!
Donovan Mcnabb was pulled from the game this past Sunday in favor of Rex Grossman because according to head coach Mike Shannahan, Mcnabb doesn't have the physical stamina to perform the two minute drill. That, I would understand if Rex Grossman was the next Michael Vick, but he's not, nor will he ever be. To make it even worse, the Redskins worked out the fattest quarterback to play in the league ever since I can remember, in Jamarcus Russell. I'm not too sure if the Redskins are trying to motivate Mcnabb to play better, but to be honest, working out Jamarcus Russell may actually take the pressure off of Mcnabb, because Russell is not good. Did you see what he did in Oakland? Exactly! What a waste of an athlete.
How about Derek Jeter. He is arguably the best shortstop to ever play the game, and he is definitely one of the best leaders to ever play the game. As much you may hate him, like I do, you have to respect his talent, and leadership ability. His contract is up after this year, so the Yankees are faced with their toughest decision since getting rid of Joe Torre. He is the Captain, and forever will be the Captain, but he is aging. Questions are surfacing about moving him to 3rd base in order to limit the area he has to cover because he has lost his range as a shortstop. But, if the Yankees do that, what will they do with Alex Rodriguez? He can't play shortstop anymore! Surely the Yankees want Jeter back, but he is coming off his worst year of baseball in his 16 years of playing professionally. He won't be awarded with a 10 year, $189 million contract like his last one. The Yanks have some decisions to make about the future of their franchise. Without George Steinbrenner around, it will definitely be interesting to see how the sons of the ever so famous Steinbrenner handle the family business!
I just want to briefly talk about the World Series. The San Francisco Giants did something that nobody in Major League Baseball thought they could do, with the exception of the team itself, and that is win the big one. They went through the best pitchers in the game on their way to their World Series win. Roy Oswalt, Cole Hamels, Roy Halladay, and Cliff Lee couldn't stop the Giants, and that really says something about the Giants offense. They had the perfect combination of Offense,and Pitching, which ultimately wins championships. Congrats to the Giants for beating some of the best pitchers in the game with their unconventional lineup! Barely getting into the playoffs really gave this team a boost, and that boost carried them to a World Series victory, so I say Congrats to you!!
As bad as Tiger Woods has been since coming back from his major downfall, you can really tell how much he has done for the game of golf. Being hurt, not playing, and just not performing well finally caught up to one of the greatest golfers to ever play the game. For 281 consecutive weeks, he sat atop the world of golf with his #1 ranking in the world. In total, Woods is one week shy of being #1 in the world for 12 years, which is 623 weeks. This really puts how good he actually was into perspective. Although you may not agree with what he did, I don't, you still have to respect him for what he did for the game of golf as a whole.
Now, let's talk about nice guys. A lot of people talk about how nice guys always finish last, but my philosophy doesn't necessarily with agree with that mantra. I do agree that nice guys tend to finish last, at least during the college years. It is pretty clear a lot of girls like to have fun, and they don't want to be bogged down by having a boyfriend. But, I think it is also clear that after college, girls want to settle down. They aren't going to settle down with the douche bags they hooked up with in their college years. They will go right for the nice guys. You know, the ones who want to find the love of their life. The ones who want kids, and will be a good father. The ones who can financially support a family. The ones who will show unconditional love to their wife and kids. The guys who will be there every time his wife is crying. The ones who want to take their kids to school because they want to be in their lives. The guys who come home from work and want to be with the family. The ones who are mature. The ones who are around, and the ones who love, with all their heart. The guys who are nice. So, to the nice guys, keep your head up! Your time may not have come yet, but just sit back and let life take you on its course. Your time will come. I promise!
Things I'm going to talk about in this post will include: Twitter, Donovan Mcnabb, Derek Jeter, The World Series, Tiger Woods, and also a little about nice guys.
I have always been opposed to getting involved in the Twitter community. There is something about the whole tweeting thing that isn't attractive. Actually, I could not have been more wrong. My friends set me up a Twitter account, and I have been religiously tweeting my soul away. Twitter is just another social network that sucks the time in the day right out from under your feet. But,I can't get enough of it, so let the day be wasted!
Donovan Mcnabb was pulled from the game this past Sunday in favor of Rex Grossman because according to head coach Mike Shannahan, Mcnabb doesn't have the physical stamina to perform the two minute drill. That, I would understand if Rex Grossman was the next Michael Vick, but he's not, nor will he ever be. To make it even worse, the Redskins worked out the fattest quarterback to play in the league ever since I can remember, in Jamarcus Russell. I'm not too sure if the Redskins are trying to motivate Mcnabb to play better, but to be honest, working out Jamarcus Russell may actually take the pressure off of Mcnabb, because Russell is not good. Did you see what he did in Oakland? Exactly! What a waste of an athlete.
How about Derek Jeter. He is arguably the best shortstop to ever play the game, and he is definitely one of the best leaders to ever play the game. As much you may hate him, like I do, you have to respect his talent, and leadership ability. His contract is up after this year, so the Yankees are faced with their toughest decision since getting rid of Joe Torre. He is the Captain, and forever will be the Captain, but he is aging. Questions are surfacing about moving him to 3rd base in order to limit the area he has to cover because he has lost his range as a shortstop. But, if the Yankees do that, what will they do with Alex Rodriguez? He can't play shortstop anymore! Surely the Yankees want Jeter back, but he is coming off his worst year of baseball in his 16 years of playing professionally. He won't be awarded with a 10 year, $189 million contract like his last one. The Yanks have some decisions to make about the future of their franchise. Without George Steinbrenner around, it will definitely be interesting to see how the sons of the ever so famous Steinbrenner handle the family business!
I just want to briefly talk about the World Series. The San Francisco Giants did something that nobody in Major League Baseball thought they could do, with the exception of the team itself, and that is win the big one. They went through the best pitchers in the game on their way to their World Series win. Roy Oswalt, Cole Hamels, Roy Halladay, and Cliff Lee couldn't stop the Giants, and that really says something about the Giants offense. They had the perfect combination of Offense,and Pitching, which ultimately wins championships. Congrats to the Giants for beating some of the best pitchers in the game with their unconventional lineup! Barely getting into the playoffs really gave this team a boost, and that boost carried them to a World Series victory, so I say Congrats to you!!
As bad as Tiger Woods has been since coming back from his major downfall, you can really tell how much he has done for the game of golf. Being hurt, not playing, and just not performing well finally caught up to one of the greatest golfers to ever play the game. For 281 consecutive weeks, he sat atop the world of golf with his #1 ranking in the world. In total, Woods is one week shy of being #1 in the world for 12 years, which is 623 weeks. This really puts how good he actually was into perspective. Although you may not agree with what he did, I don't, you still have to respect him for what he did for the game of golf as a whole.
Now, let's talk about nice guys. A lot of people talk about how nice guys always finish last, but my philosophy doesn't necessarily with agree with that mantra. I do agree that nice guys tend to finish last, at least during the college years. It is pretty clear a lot of girls like to have fun, and they don't want to be bogged down by having a boyfriend. But, I think it is also clear that after college, girls want to settle down. They aren't going to settle down with the douche bags they hooked up with in their college years. They will go right for the nice guys. You know, the ones who want to find the love of their life. The ones who want kids, and will be a good father. The ones who can financially support a family. The ones who will show unconditional love to their wife and kids. The guys who will be there every time his wife is crying. The ones who want to take their kids to school because they want to be in their lives. The guys who come home from work and want to be with the family. The ones who are mature. The ones who are around, and the ones who love, with all their heart. The guys who are nice. So, to the nice guys, keep your head up! Your time may not have come yet, but just sit back and let life take you on its course. Your time will come. I promise!
October 3, 2010
That's Incredible
After just one post, the new segment "Weekly QB" has already been scrapped. I quickly realized that I have thoughts about football running through my head constantly, and to translate that onto paper, or a blog, is simply not cool. So, new segment..."That's Incredible."
You wanna know what's incredible? This is kind of old news, but let's be honest, it's still incredible. Let's take a look at ESPN. The so-called "Worldwide leader in sports" quite frankly stumbled a bit, when the opportunity arose for the NCAA March Madness tournament to sell their digital rights. I can't believe ESPN would let Turner Sports beat them out for the rights to show the March Madness tournament on their stations. Now ESPN will have to wait 14 years for another opportunity like that to come by. What's Incredible? That's incredible!
How about the fact that nice guys always finish last, at least in their college years. I understand girls want to have fun, meaning, be slutty, in their college years. But, don't come running to me after college, because I don't do sluts. If you want me, you are just going to have to 'have fun' with me while you are still in college. Nice guys finish last? Now that's incredible!
Let's talk about me updating this blog. I don't really think like I used to. Awhile ago, if I had something to say, I would get on here and say it. Now, I don't really do that. Don't ask why, but it has decreased the amount of times I update this blog. This is the first time in a couple weeks, technically more if you count the ones I actually wrote. Is it incredible I don't update this blog as much? No. But, it is incredible I actually updated this!
Ladies and gentleman, the Cincinnati Reds are in the playoffs for the first time in 15 years. That is truly incredible!
What I think is really funny, is when people call themselves good looking. That is incredible!! Remember, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And, you really make yourself sound conceded. If you are cute, someone will tell you so. Don't be one of those people because then you may be attractive...
Here is what is really on my mind. You know how hard it is to get a girl to hang out with you, especially when all you want to do is get to know her? Believe it or not, not all guys want to get you in the sack right away. And, if they do, then they are not cool. Personally, when I say let's watch a movie. It means let's watch a movie, and talk. It doesn't mean I want to make out with you for hours upon end. It's really pretty crazy. Girls like confidence, but some don't. I wish there was a formula, but unfortunately there will never be one. When I say, let's hang out, I mean let's hang out. Talk, walk, just chill and watch tv, dance, sing, whatever the case, that's what I mean. I don't mean, hey come over and let's get it on. No, that just wouldn't be me. It's so difficult, really because if I try and explain how I am different than other guys, the girl looks at me, like she has been down that road before. So, constantly I am at a loss. I don't want to be aggressive, because that is never good, but I want to be confident. Yet all there is to show for it, is me being single for 20 years. Is that incredible? No, that's disturbing!
You wanna know what's incredible? This is kind of old news, but let's be honest, it's still incredible. Let's take a look at ESPN. The so-called "Worldwide leader in sports" quite frankly stumbled a bit, when the opportunity arose for the NCAA March Madness tournament to sell their digital rights. I can't believe ESPN would let Turner Sports beat them out for the rights to show the March Madness tournament on their stations. Now ESPN will have to wait 14 years for another opportunity like that to come by. What's Incredible? That's incredible!
How about the fact that nice guys always finish last, at least in their college years. I understand girls want to have fun, meaning, be slutty, in their college years. But, don't come running to me after college, because I don't do sluts. If you want me, you are just going to have to 'have fun' with me while you are still in college. Nice guys finish last? Now that's incredible!
Let's talk about me updating this blog. I don't really think like I used to. Awhile ago, if I had something to say, I would get on here and say it. Now, I don't really do that. Don't ask why, but it has decreased the amount of times I update this blog. This is the first time in a couple weeks, technically more if you count the ones I actually wrote. Is it incredible I don't update this blog as much? No. But, it is incredible I actually updated this!
Ladies and gentleman, the Cincinnati Reds are in the playoffs for the first time in 15 years. That is truly incredible!
What I think is really funny, is when people call themselves good looking. That is incredible!! Remember, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And, you really make yourself sound conceded. If you are cute, someone will tell you so. Don't be one of those people because then you may be attractive...
Here is what is really on my mind. You know how hard it is to get a girl to hang out with you, especially when all you want to do is get to know her? Believe it or not, not all guys want to get you in the sack right away. And, if they do, then they are not cool. Personally, when I say let's watch a movie. It means let's watch a movie, and talk. It doesn't mean I want to make out with you for hours upon end. It's really pretty crazy. Girls like confidence, but some don't. I wish there was a formula, but unfortunately there will never be one. When I say, let's hang out, I mean let's hang out. Talk, walk, just chill and watch tv, dance, sing, whatever the case, that's what I mean. I don't mean, hey come over and let's get it on. No, that just wouldn't be me. It's so difficult, really because if I try and explain how I am different than other guys, the girl looks at me, like she has been down that road before. So, constantly I am at a loss. I don't want to be aggressive, because that is never good, but I want to be confident. Yet all there is to show for it, is me being single for 20 years. Is that incredible? No, that's disturbing!
September 29, 2010
I Didn't Write This...But It's Funny! And True if I must say...
Ode to the Nice Guys
This rant was written for the Wharton Undergraduate Journal
This is a tribute to the nice guys. The nice guys that finish last, that never become more than friends, that endure hours of whining and bitching about what assholes guys are, while disproving the very point. This is dedicated to those guys who always provide a shoulder to lean on but restrain themselves to tentative hugs, those guys who hold open doors and give reassuring pats on the back and sit patiently outside the changing room at department stores. This is in honor of the guys that obligingly reiterate how cute/beautiful/smart/funny/sexy their female friends are at the appropriate moment, because they know most girls need that litany of support. This is in honor of the guys with open minds, with laid-back attitudes, with honest concern. This is in honor of the guys who respect a girl’s every facet, from her privacy to her theology to her clothing style.
This is for the guys who escort their drunk, bewildered female friends back from parties and never take advantage once they’re at her door, for the guys who accompany girls to bars as buffers against the rest of the creepy male population, for the guys who know a girl is fishing for compliments but give them out anyway, for the guys who always play by the rules in a game where the rules favor cheaters, for the guys who are accredited as boyfriend material but somehow don’t end up being boyfriends, for all the nice guys who are overlooked, underestimated, and unappreciated, for all the nice guys who are manipulated, misled, and unjustly abandoned, this is for you.
This is for that time she left 40 urgent messages on your cell phone, and when you called her back, she spent three hours painstakingly dissecting two sentences her boyfriend said to her over dinner. And even though you thought her boyfriend was a chump and a jerk, you assured her that it was all ok and she shouldn’t worry about it. This is for that time she interrupted the best killing spree you’d ever orchestrated in GTA3 to rant about a rumor that romantically linked her and the guy she thinks is the most repulsive person in the world. And even though you thought it was immature and you had nothing against the guy, you paused the game for two hours and helped her concoct a counter-rumor to spread around the floor. This is also for that time she didn’t have a date, so after numerous vows that there was nothing “serious” between the two of you, she dragged you to a party where you knew nobody, the beer was awful, and she flirted shamelessly with you, justifying each fit of reckless teasing by announcing to everyone: “oh, but we’re just friends!” And even though you were invited purely as a symbolic warm body for her ego, you went anyways. Because you’re nice like that.
The nice guys don’t often get credit where credit is due. And perhaps more disturbing, the nice guys don’t seem to get laid as often as they should. And I wish I could logically explain this trend, but I can’t. From what I have observed on campus and what I have learned from talking to friends at other schools and in the workplace, the only conclusion I can form is that many girls are just illogical, manipulative bitches. Many of them claim they just want to date a nice guy, but when presented with such a specimen, they say irrational, confusing things such as “oh, he’s too nice to date” or “he would be a good boyfriend but he’s not for me” or “he already puts up with so much from me, I couldn’t possibly ask him out!” or the most frustrating of all: “no, it would ruin our friendship.” Yet, they continue to lament the lack of datable men in the world, and they expect their too-nice-to-date male friends to sympathize and apologize for the men that are jerks. Sorry, guys, girls like that are beyond my ability to fathom. I can’t figure out why the connection breaks down between what they say (I want a nice guy!) and what they do (I’m going to sleep with this complete ass now!). But one thing I can do, is say that the nice-guy-finishes-last phenomenon doesn’t last forever. There are definitely many girls who grow out of that train of thought and realize they should be dating the nice guys, not taking them for granted. The tricky part is finding those girls, and even trickier, finding the ones that are single.
So, until those girls are found, I propose a toast to all the nice guys. You know who you are, and I know you’re sick of hearing yourself described as ubiquitously nice. But the truth of the matter is, the world needs your patience in the department store, your holding open of doors, your party escorting services, your propensity to be a sucker for a pretty smile. For all the crazy, inane, absurd things you tolerate, for all the situations where you are the faceless, nameless hero, my accolades, my acknowledgement, and my gratitude go out to you. You do have credibility in this society, and your well deserved vindication is coming.
Fu-zu Jen, SEAS/WH, 2003
This rant was written for the Wharton Undergraduate Journal
This is a tribute to the nice guys. The nice guys that finish last, that never become more than friends, that endure hours of whining and bitching about what assholes guys are, while disproving the very point. This is dedicated to those guys who always provide a shoulder to lean on but restrain themselves to tentative hugs, those guys who hold open doors and give reassuring pats on the back and sit patiently outside the changing room at department stores. This is in honor of the guys that obligingly reiterate how cute/beautiful/smart/funny/sexy their female friends are at the appropriate moment, because they know most girls need that litany of support. This is in honor of the guys with open minds, with laid-back attitudes, with honest concern. This is in honor of the guys who respect a girl’s every facet, from her privacy to her theology to her clothing style.
This is for the guys who escort their drunk, bewildered female friends back from parties and never take advantage once they’re at her door, for the guys who accompany girls to bars as buffers against the rest of the creepy male population, for the guys who know a girl is fishing for compliments but give them out anyway, for the guys who always play by the rules in a game where the rules favor cheaters, for the guys who are accredited as boyfriend material but somehow don’t end up being boyfriends, for all the nice guys who are overlooked, underestimated, and unappreciated, for all the nice guys who are manipulated, misled, and unjustly abandoned, this is for you.
This is for that time she left 40 urgent messages on your cell phone, and when you called her back, she spent three hours painstakingly dissecting two sentences her boyfriend said to her over dinner. And even though you thought her boyfriend was a chump and a jerk, you assured her that it was all ok and she shouldn’t worry about it. This is for that time she interrupted the best killing spree you’d ever orchestrated in GTA3 to rant about a rumor that romantically linked her and the guy she thinks is the most repulsive person in the world. And even though you thought it was immature and you had nothing against the guy, you paused the game for two hours and helped her concoct a counter-rumor to spread around the floor. This is also for that time she didn’t have a date, so after numerous vows that there was nothing “serious” between the two of you, she dragged you to a party where you knew nobody, the beer was awful, and she flirted shamelessly with you, justifying each fit of reckless teasing by announcing to everyone: “oh, but we’re just friends!” And even though you were invited purely as a symbolic warm body for her ego, you went anyways. Because you’re nice like that.
The nice guys don’t often get credit where credit is due. And perhaps more disturbing, the nice guys don’t seem to get laid as often as they should. And I wish I could logically explain this trend, but I can’t. From what I have observed on campus and what I have learned from talking to friends at other schools and in the workplace, the only conclusion I can form is that many girls are just illogical, manipulative bitches. Many of them claim they just want to date a nice guy, but when presented with such a specimen, they say irrational, confusing things such as “oh, he’s too nice to date” or “he would be a good boyfriend but he’s not for me” or “he already puts up with so much from me, I couldn’t possibly ask him out!” or the most frustrating of all: “no, it would ruin our friendship.” Yet, they continue to lament the lack of datable men in the world, and they expect their too-nice-to-date male friends to sympathize and apologize for the men that are jerks. Sorry, guys, girls like that are beyond my ability to fathom. I can’t figure out why the connection breaks down between what they say (I want a nice guy!) and what they do (I’m going to sleep with this complete ass now!). But one thing I can do, is say that the nice-guy-finishes-last phenomenon doesn’t last forever. There are definitely many girls who grow out of that train of thought and realize they should be dating the nice guys, not taking them for granted. The tricky part is finding those girls, and even trickier, finding the ones that are single.
So, until those girls are found, I propose a toast to all the nice guys. You know who you are, and I know you’re sick of hearing yourself described as ubiquitously nice. But the truth of the matter is, the world needs your patience in the department store, your holding open of doors, your party escorting services, your propensity to be a sucker for a pretty smile. For all the crazy, inane, absurd things you tolerate, for all the situations where you are the faceless, nameless hero, my accolades, my acknowledgement, and my gratitude go out to you. You do have credibility in this society, and your well deserved vindication is coming.
Fu-zu Jen, SEAS/WH, 2003
September 23, 2010
Weekly QB
Forbes released their "Forbes 400: The Richest People in America" and not surprisingly Bill Gates is once again at the top of the list. His mega-corporation not only revolutionized the world, but also his life. His net worth? $54 billion. Oh, and did I mention he has been number one for the past 17 years?
Number two on that list is Warren Buffett. Buffett is known for not only his company Birkshire Hathaway, but also for being one of the best businessmen ever. His net worth rounds out to $45 billion. At the age of 80, Buffett plans to give away 99% of his wealth away to charity when he passes, more specifically the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation. I suppose the other 1% will go to his children.
Rounding out the top three is Larry Ellison, the owner of Oracle. His net worth comes out to lowly a $27 billion. He too plans to give away his money to charity, 95% to be exact.
The most amazing part of this is the top two are about $20-30 billion dollars away from the number three guy.
Where is the creator of Facebook, Mark Zuckerberg? His net worth is $6.9 billion. Oh, and he's only 26 years old. Apparently, Mark made the biggest jump percentage-wise in net worth from last year to this year, 245% to be exact. He is the 35th richest person in America by the way.
NEXT...
I'm looking to start a new weekly 'segment' if you will. I want to call it "Monday Morning Quarterback" but unfortunately the big shots at ESPN have all but trademarked that phrase. So, preliminarily, I will say my 'segment' is going to be called 'Weekly QB.' It's possible this will change, because like all things, change is inevitable. I am looking to not only talk about the NFL, but also the NCAA, and possibly, which really means most likely, about baseball...At least until the Cincinnati Reds get eliminated from the playoffs. It will go a little something like this...
Weekly QB:
I'm not really sure what I was most upset about when I heard Braylon Edwards got a DUI. Was it the fact that the league has a personal escort service for all players? Meaning, on the nights when you have a little too much to drink, your ride is one phone call away, no questions asked. Or was it that his beard is still there? Maybe he should shave that bushy beard and get smart. That could be one of his '12 steps' on his road to recovery. Other than that, I really don't think this effects the Jets football team at all. Edwards was a good, not great, college football player, and he will never be a good NFL receiver; decent maybe, but never good.
I like how Denard "Shoelace" Robinson is getting so much hype recently. It's awesome that he can go out and beat Connecticut and Notre Dame pretty easily. Against ND he had a great game, but I'm not sold. Michigan struggled last week against Massachusetts. Who? Exactly. Regardless, neither of those three teams are that good. And, to make another point, I would like to see him do something against a good defense. If he does big things against a good team, I will become a believer. Not that he is great, but that the Michigan football team is a decent team this year. It's about time.
The best 0-2 team at the moment that will make the playoffs in the NFL is the San Francisco 49ers. This team is good. Alex Smith showed he can be clutch; he just needs to be consistent from here on out. Defensively, they are fantastic, and they have one of the best head coaches in the league. Mike Singletary was a great player, and I think he can be an even better coach. Watch out for the team by the bay for the rest of the season.
The Cincinnati Reds are just games away from getting into the playoffs! This is a much needed boost for the Reds organization. Though attendance is down, hopefully they can sell out their home games for the playoffs, which should happen. Their magic number for now, is at 3. This will stay there for at least a day, while the Reds are traveling, and the Cardinals already won.
I'll leave off with a question to think about: How did Rufus the Bobcat tackling Brutus the Buckeye effect Ohio University? Leave comments below if you wish...
Number two on that list is Warren Buffett. Buffett is known for not only his company Birkshire Hathaway, but also for being one of the best businessmen ever. His net worth rounds out to $45 billion. At the age of 80, Buffett plans to give away 99% of his wealth away to charity when he passes, more specifically the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation. I suppose the other 1% will go to his children.
Rounding out the top three is Larry Ellison, the owner of Oracle. His net worth comes out to lowly a $27 billion. He too plans to give away his money to charity, 95% to be exact.
The most amazing part of this is the top two are about $20-30 billion dollars away from the number three guy.
Where is the creator of Facebook, Mark Zuckerberg? His net worth is $6.9 billion. Oh, and he's only 26 years old. Apparently, Mark made the biggest jump percentage-wise in net worth from last year to this year, 245% to be exact. He is the 35th richest person in America by the way.
NEXT...
I'm looking to start a new weekly 'segment' if you will. I want to call it "Monday Morning Quarterback" but unfortunately the big shots at ESPN have all but trademarked that phrase. So, preliminarily, I will say my 'segment' is going to be called 'Weekly QB.' It's possible this will change, because like all things, change is inevitable. I am looking to not only talk about the NFL, but also the NCAA, and possibly, which really means most likely, about baseball...At least until the Cincinnati Reds get eliminated from the playoffs. It will go a little something like this...
Weekly QB:
I'm not really sure what I was most upset about when I heard Braylon Edwards got a DUI. Was it the fact that the league has a personal escort service for all players? Meaning, on the nights when you have a little too much to drink, your ride is one phone call away, no questions asked. Or was it that his beard is still there? Maybe he should shave that bushy beard and get smart. That could be one of his '12 steps' on his road to recovery. Other than that, I really don't think this effects the Jets football team at all. Edwards was a good, not great, college football player, and he will never be a good NFL receiver; decent maybe, but never good.
I like how Denard "Shoelace" Robinson is getting so much hype recently. It's awesome that he can go out and beat Connecticut and Notre Dame pretty easily. Against ND he had a great game, but I'm not sold. Michigan struggled last week against Massachusetts. Who? Exactly. Regardless, neither of those three teams are that good. And, to make another point, I would like to see him do something against a good defense. If he does big things against a good team, I will become a believer. Not that he is great, but that the Michigan football team is a decent team this year. It's about time.
The best 0-2 team at the moment that will make the playoffs in the NFL is the San Francisco 49ers. This team is good. Alex Smith showed he can be clutch; he just needs to be consistent from here on out. Defensively, they are fantastic, and they have one of the best head coaches in the league. Mike Singletary was a great player, and I think he can be an even better coach. Watch out for the team by the bay for the rest of the season.
The Cincinnati Reds are just games away from getting into the playoffs! This is a much needed boost for the Reds organization. Though attendance is down, hopefully they can sell out their home games for the playoffs, which should happen. Their magic number for now, is at 3. This will stay there for at least a day, while the Reds are traveling, and the Cardinals already won.
I'll leave off with a question to think about: How did Rufus the Bobcat tackling Brutus the Buckeye effect Ohio University? Leave comments below if you wish...
September 18, 2010
Clearing My Mind
It's been a long time since I have updated this blog, but I promise, I'm coming back strong. I have talked about this subject before on here, but I didn't do it justice, so this is the real deal. Some of you have already read this, but read it again, because it's that good. Enjoy!
Growing up as a guy, society has their perception of what a man should be. Men are supposed to have a chiseled jaw with a five o’clock shadow, combined with a six, if not eight, pack. Men are supposed to be tough. They have to be strong, both inside and out. Men should have all the answers, whether it’s what’s on TV, or what kind of car someone should buy. Men are definitely not allowed to share their emotions with other people. This is what it means to be a guy right? You have to be closed off to the world, and look good doing it, as well as having all the answers. Right?
Well, judging by the above description, I am not a man. I mean, I am, but I don’t really fall under any of the above categories. My jaw could not be any farther from chiseled, and the constant five o’clock shadow is more like I can’t even grow facial hair. I know what you’re thinking; is this kid twelve or something? The answer is no, but I do get that a lot. In fact I’m 20, with 21 being right around the corner. Back to the manly descriptions; I don’t have an eight, six, four, or even two pack. In exchange for the rock solid abs, apparently my family chose a belly and ‘love’ handles for their genes to pass on. Whose idea was that?
I played football for all four years throughout high school and all I can show for it is a plaque and a varsity letter. My body doesn’t even look like I played football, meaning I’m not strong, on the outside. At a time when I was looking to get big muscles and get fast, all that happened was I grew upwards, (and outwards) and got slower. I suppose the one thing I can say is I’m pretty strong on the inside, but who isn’t. If you put your mind to something, you can always accomplish that thing, right? I certainly do not have all the answers. Clearly, see Fall Quarter GPA of my sophomore year. Although, I do tend to know what is on TV, I only know one thing about cars. You should get your oil checked on a regular basis. Oh, and in case you didn’t pick up on it, I would say I have an exceptional sense of humor.
I’m sure by now, you are probably wondering, both why I am writing this and what direction I’m going to go with this from here. Well the first question is yet to be determined, and as for the second one, I’m sure I’m going to take this a different way than you would think I’m going to, so bear with me. My teacher told my class to write informally, but not too informal. I don’t necessarily follow all the rules, especially this one, because I write better this way. Seriously though, who follows all the rules, don’t you speed on the open road sometimes?
This year marks the beginning of my junior year at Ohio University. I know what you’re thinking; all this kid does is party and get drunk everyday. Well, not quite. Yes, OU is now the number two party school in the country, as said by the Princeton Review. But I don’t want you to get the wrong idea. Before I touch on that, I’ll tell you about my first two years here. My freshmen year was good, but don’t get me wrong, I had thoughts of transferring closer to home, and to a cheaper school. As tuition keeps getting raised yearly, and my bank accounts are quickly declining, it is getting tougher to pay for school.
I wasn’t allowed to have my car here for my first year so I didn’t get the whole effect of Athens, Ohio. I didn’t really know why, but I came back for my sophomore year. Maybe it was the friendships I had built, or maybe it was the false sense of hope things would change around this town. Regardless of reason, I came back. The relationships I had built during my sophomore year were amazing. I know I will have friends that will be there for me whenever I need them. Now in my third year, and loving Athens after spending a summer here, I want to share something I have learned.
Do you know what a walk can do for you? I didn’t, but that was before I knew about ‘the late night walk’. ‘The late night walk’ is really a ‘man walk’. I wish we had a better name for it, but honestly, we are guys, and we are not creative. The ‘man walk’ is really an opportunity to say whatever is on your chest. There is a catch to this walk though. You can’t just go on a walk with some random guy, or some guy you kind of know. It has to be with a good friend, and I mean a good friend, one that you wouldn’t mind having as a best man at your wedding. For instance, the guys I go on this walk with, they may know me, better than I know myself. I have cried to these guys before, and I swear I only cry when someone close passes, or during a sad movie. If there are relationship problems, these guys know about it.
So what’s the point of this walk? The ‘catch’ is, this walk is an opportunity to speak your mind. No matter how bad of an idea I have, I can say it on this ‘man walk’ and I know everything will be fine. These walks aren’t mapped out either. You walk until you are done talking. Granted there will be a next time, but you have to say what you have to say. There are some rules to this walk, though not official. Rule number one is at all times, you should speak your mind. Even if your thought is negative towards another person on the walk, it’s something that should be said. Rule number two is there is a no judgment zone. Meaning, as soon as the walk starts, no judgment will be passed from one to another. Which also means as soon as the walk ends, feel free to judge all you want, just kidding. The third and final rule for the ‘man walk’ is that whatever is said on these walks, stays on these walks, at all times.
Without breaking rule number three, I will tell you what type of things we talk about. A very common subject is girls and relationships. Now, I know I said I don’t have answers, but I do have answers for this subject. Granted, when it comes to my own relationships, I just don’t know what to do. I give great advice, but I don’t follow it. I have talked about family situations back home, and even financial situations. We talk about what we want to do with our lives after college. A lot of this walk is just clearing the mind of all the things blocking you from having a good time.
I am in constant need to clear my mind. I am a 20 year-old kid who is a Resident Assistant at the nation’s number two party school. For those of you who don’t know what a Resident Assistant does, I basically enforce policies set by the University. I constantly struggle with getting my school work done, enforcing policies, not trying to be the mean RA, making friends, and trying to still have a good college experience. I have given up a lot of my college experience by being an RA, but I refuse to let my job hold me back. These walks are a good chance for me to clear my mind. I don’t really have that many stress relievers. I listen to music, sometimes go on long drives to nowhere, and now I go on these late night ‘man walks.’
Earlier I said I didn’t know why I was writing this, but to be honest I’ve known the whole time. I wanted to share with you, not only a little bit about myself, but one of the things I do that has been something I’ve come to look forward to. I hear, and say, things in these walks I never thought I would. Every walk is different, but every walk is special to me, and I don’t see why they can’t be special to everyone. I encourage you to find your best friend and go on a walk, and hopefully it changes your life, just like my walks have changed mine.
Growing up as a guy, society has their perception of what a man should be. Men are supposed to have a chiseled jaw with a five o’clock shadow, combined with a six, if not eight, pack. Men are supposed to be tough. They have to be strong, both inside and out. Men should have all the answers, whether it’s what’s on TV, or what kind of car someone should buy. Men are definitely not allowed to share their emotions with other people. This is what it means to be a guy right? You have to be closed off to the world, and look good doing it, as well as having all the answers. Right?
Well, judging by the above description, I am not a man. I mean, I am, but I don’t really fall under any of the above categories. My jaw could not be any farther from chiseled, and the constant five o’clock shadow is more like I can’t even grow facial hair. I know what you’re thinking; is this kid twelve or something? The answer is no, but I do get that a lot. In fact I’m 20, with 21 being right around the corner. Back to the manly descriptions; I don’t have an eight, six, four, or even two pack. In exchange for the rock solid abs, apparently my family chose a belly and ‘love’ handles for their genes to pass on. Whose idea was that?
I played football for all four years throughout high school and all I can show for it is a plaque and a varsity letter. My body doesn’t even look like I played football, meaning I’m not strong, on the outside. At a time when I was looking to get big muscles and get fast, all that happened was I grew upwards, (and outwards) and got slower. I suppose the one thing I can say is I’m pretty strong on the inside, but who isn’t. If you put your mind to something, you can always accomplish that thing, right? I certainly do not have all the answers. Clearly, see Fall Quarter GPA of my sophomore year. Although, I do tend to know what is on TV, I only know one thing about cars. You should get your oil checked on a regular basis. Oh, and in case you didn’t pick up on it, I would say I have an exceptional sense of humor.
I’m sure by now, you are probably wondering, both why I am writing this and what direction I’m going to go with this from here. Well the first question is yet to be determined, and as for the second one, I’m sure I’m going to take this a different way than you would think I’m going to, so bear with me. My teacher told my class to write informally, but not too informal. I don’t necessarily follow all the rules, especially this one, because I write better this way. Seriously though, who follows all the rules, don’t you speed on the open road sometimes?
This year marks the beginning of my junior year at Ohio University. I know what you’re thinking; all this kid does is party and get drunk everyday. Well, not quite. Yes, OU is now the number two party school in the country, as said by the Princeton Review. But I don’t want you to get the wrong idea. Before I touch on that, I’ll tell you about my first two years here. My freshmen year was good, but don’t get me wrong, I had thoughts of transferring closer to home, and to a cheaper school. As tuition keeps getting raised yearly, and my bank accounts are quickly declining, it is getting tougher to pay for school.
I wasn’t allowed to have my car here for my first year so I didn’t get the whole effect of Athens, Ohio. I didn’t really know why, but I came back for my sophomore year. Maybe it was the friendships I had built, or maybe it was the false sense of hope things would change around this town. Regardless of reason, I came back. The relationships I had built during my sophomore year were amazing. I know I will have friends that will be there for me whenever I need them. Now in my third year, and loving Athens after spending a summer here, I want to share something I have learned.
Do you know what a walk can do for you? I didn’t, but that was before I knew about ‘the late night walk’. ‘The late night walk’ is really a ‘man walk’. I wish we had a better name for it, but honestly, we are guys, and we are not creative. The ‘man walk’ is really an opportunity to say whatever is on your chest. There is a catch to this walk though. You can’t just go on a walk with some random guy, or some guy you kind of know. It has to be with a good friend, and I mean a good friend, one that you wouldn’t mind having as a best man at your wedding. For instance, the guys I go on this walk with, they may know me, better than I know myself. I have cried to these guys before, and I swear I only cry when someone close passes, or during a sad movie. If there are relationship problems, these guys know about it.
So what’s the point of this walk? The ‘catch’ is, this walk is an opportunity to speak your mind. No matter how bad of an idea I have, I can say it on this ‘man walk’ and I know everything will be fine. These walks aren’t mapped out either. You walk until you are done talking. Granted there will be a next time, but you have to say what you have to say. There are some rules to this walk, though not official. Rule number one is at all times, you should speak your mind. Even if your thought is negative towards another person on the walk, it’s something that should be said. Rule number two is there is a no judgment zone. Meaning, as soon as the walk starts, no judgment will be passed from one to another. Which also means as soon as the walk ends, feel free to judge all you want, just kidding. The third and final rule for the ‘man walk’ is that whatever is said on these walks, stays on these walks, at all times.
Without breaking rule number three, I will tell you what type of things we talk about. A very common subject is girls and relationships. Now, I know I said I don’t have answers, but I do have answers for this subject. Granted, when it comes to my own relationships, I just don’t know what to do. I give great advice, but I don’t follow it. I have talked about family situations back home, and even financial situations. We talk about what we want to do with our lives after college. A lot of this walk is just clearing the mind of all the things blocking you from having a good time.
I am in constant need to clear my mind. I am a 20 year-old kid who is a Resident Assistant at the nation’s number two party school. For those of you who don’t know what a Resident Assistant does, I basically enforce policies set by the University. I constantly struggle with getting my school work done, enforcing policies, not trying to be the mean RA, making friends, and trying to still have a good college experience. I have given up a lot of my college experience by being an RA, but I refuse to let my job hold me back. These walks are a good chance for me to clear my mind. I don’t really have that many stress relievers. I listen to music, sometimes go on long drives to nowhere, and now I go on these late night ‘man walks.’
Earlier I said I didn’t know why I was writing this, but to be honest I’ve known the whole time. I wanted to share with you, not only a little bit about myself, but one of the things I do that has been something I’ve come to look forward to. I hear, and say, things in these walks I never thought I would. Every walk is different, but every walk is special to me, and I don’t see why they can’t be special to everyone. I encourage you to find your best friend and go on a walk, and hopefully it changes your life, just like my walks have changed mine.
August 18, 2010
Until next time...
I'm not going to be writing another post for a few weeks. I need some time to gather my thoughts. Just letting my 8 followers know. I will probably start back up around the time school starts again. Until then, do something different today. Don't fall into the same routine everyday. Switch it up every once in awhile!
August 15, 2010
Changing the way we are... and other things of course
There are a couple things that really upset me. The one I'm going to be talking about is that as humans, we are brought up to resist change. Change is always bad, right? WRONG! Here's a quote summing up my feelings on change: "If you always do what you always did, you'll always get what you always got." I hate that we don't accept change. I hate it. I get that change isn't always good, but you have to be willing to at least try. So maybe you always date a certain kind of person, and maybe that certain kind of person always ends up hurting you. Honestly, if you don't make a change, you will always get hurt. Just step out of the box, find someone new. Don't be afraid. There is nothing to be afraid of. Go away from your comfort for once, and accept the fact you are being different. Just do it! Go for it! Change can be a good thing, and it can change your life for the better if you let it...
Do you ever just let your mind go? I'm talking about literally just sitting down and not doing anything and just letting your mind go. It's like just freeing up your mind to do whatever. I'm not talking about thinking or anything like that, but I mean just letting go. Ultimately if this ever happens, I suppose you have found piece. What does it take to get to a point where your mind can wander, but you aren't thinking about anything. Is this even possible? If it is, I would like to get there some day!
That's all I have right now. Thoughts are running through my mind as fast as the speed of sound, but I have no words to express them at the moment. Maybe tomorrow, or later on in the week, but right now I'm just at a loss... One day I'll get it right. I promise! I just want you to trust me to do the right thing. If you want it, you can have it, you just have to go get it. That's the problem though, you know, the whole going to get what you want. Every plan seems perfect, but it's the 'on-the-fly' adjustments that really count. At this point I am rambling, but I'm going to get what I want... hopefully.
Do you ever just let your mind go? I'm talking about literally just sitting down and not doing anything and just letting your mind go. It's like just freeing up your mind to do whatever. I'm not talking about thinking or anything like that, but I mean just letting go. Ultimately if this ever happens, I suppose you have found piece. What does it take to get to a point where your mind can wander, but you aren't thinking about anything. Is this even possible? If it is, I would like to get there some day!
That's all I have right now. Thoughts are running through my mind as fast as the speed of sound, but I have no words to express them at the moment. Maybe tomorrow, or later on in the week, but right now I'm just at a loss... One day I'll get it right. I promise! I just want you to trust me to do the right thing. If you want it, you can have it, you just have to go get it. That's the problem though, you know, the whole going to get what you want. Every plan seems perfect, but it's the 'on-the-fly' adjustments that really count. At this point I am rambling, but I'm going to get what I want... hopefully.
August 14, 2010
Things....
Just a couple things here that I feel the need to talk about...
The First Thing: The lack of Saturday television. You would think TV stations would put on something good on Saturdays while football isn't in season. I mean, let's be honest here, once football season starts, no one watches anything but football on Saturday and Sunday. Personally, I can't stand watching TV on Saturday because there is nothing on! Do you really expect me to watch 'The Flinstones' movie? Not gonna happen.
The Second Thing: I can't wait for football season to come back!! High School Football, College Football, and Pro Football. Doesn't really get much better than that. At least it will give us all a good reason to stay in and watch TV.
The Third Thing: The Cincinnati Reds. So you may not know, but the Reds squandered their first place lead to the St. Louis Cardinals by getting swept in their series last week. Look, it's baseball. Teams get swept all the time. Was I disappointed? Absolutely. But, I also realize the Reds had to go up against the Cardinals best three pitchers, and the Reds had a player or two in a slump. These things happen, but I will say it would be nice to show the rest of Major League Baseball you belong atop the standings. I think it would be nice to at least win one game! Their season isn't over by any means, but this was an important series and the Reds laid an egg!!
The Fourth Thing: There really isn't a fourth thing but I was on a roll. This has been a bit of a lame post, but it's just something I wanted to say.
Ok, The Real Fourth Thing: This just came to me. I want to talk a little bit about keeping in touch with people. I understand it's hard. I find myself trying to keep in touch with people. I'm busy, they're busy. It gets more difficult by the day to keep in touch with people. I feel like if I am the one always trying to keep in touch, and/or get together, and there is no effort by the other person, I feel like I should stop trying. The way I see it, and I may be wrong, is why should I always be the one trying. It would be nice to have a little reciprocation on the other's behalf. Honestly, it gets to a point where I just feel like not trying anymore.
The Fifth Thing: Have a great day! Tell someone thanks for being there for you. Tell them thanks for coming to see you, and for being your friend! Don't be afraid to take risks... I am, and look where it's gotten me. Take that risk, you never know, there may be a reward waiting for you!
The First Thing: The lack of Saturday television. You would think TV stations would put on something good on Saturdays while football isn't in season. I mean, let's be honest here, once football season starts, no one watches anything but football on Saturday and Sunday. Personally, I can't stand watching TV on Saturday because there is nothing on! Do you really expect me to watch 'The Flinstones' movie? Not gonna happen.
The Second Thing: I can't wait for football season to come back!! High School Football, College Football, and Pro Football. Doesn't really get much better than that. At least it will give us all a good reason to stay in and watch TV.
The Third Thing: The Cincinnati Reds. So you may not know, but the Reds squandered their first place lead to the St. Louis Cardinals by getting swept in their series last week. Look, it's baseball. Teams get swept all the time. Was I disappointed? Absolutely. But, I also realize the Reds had to go up against the Cardinals best three pitchers, and the Reds had a player or two in a slump. These things happen, but I will say it would be nice to show the rest of Major League Baseball you belong atop the standings. I think it would be nice to at least win one game! Their season isn't over by any means, but this was an important series and the Reds laid an egg!!
The Fourth Thing: There really isn't a fourth thing but I was on a roll. This has been a bit of a lame post, but it's just something I wanted to say.
Ok, The Real Fourth Thing: This just came to me. I want to talk a little bit about keeping in touch with people. I understand it's hard. I find myself trying to keep in touch with people. I'm busy, they're busy. It gets more difficult by the day to keep in touch with people. I feel like if I am the one always trying to keep in touch, and/or get together, and there is no effort by the other person, I feel like I should stop trying. The way I see it, and I may be wrong, is why should I always be the one trying. It would be nice to have a little reciprocation on the other's behalf. Honestly, it gets to a point where I just feel like not trying anymore.
The Fifth Thing: Have a great day! Tell someone thanks for being there for you. Tell them thanks for coming to see you, and for being your friend! Don't be afraid to take risks... I am, and look where it's gotten me. Take that risk, you never know, there may be a reward waiting for you!
July 31, 2010
The '3 E's' and Their Meaning
So I came across this while writing that big paper I talked about in an earlier post. As I was writing about how I would market a baseball team in Portland, Oregon, I talked about how our community relations would need to be top notch. While explaining how our public relations/media relations/and community relations would be top notch I simply wrote three things. The first was, we would need to be willing to go the extra mile, no matter the situation. The second was, we would need to be efficient. The third was, we would need to be excellent.
Think about that for a second. After I wrote that, I was preparing how I would say that during my presentation to the class. I played with different ways to say it, and one thing kept coming back to me. As I really thought about that, I decided those three things were meant for more than just a public relations department. I just kept thinking if I would live my life based on those three things, everything would be fine.
You know, I have really been thinking about this. Just think, if for everything you did in life, you were willing to go the extra mile, you were efficient, and you were excellent, wouldn't you set yourself up for success? In my eyes the answer is yes.
Let's start with a willingness to go the extra mile. If you are willing to do whatever it takes, you will put yourself ahead, I promise you that. Whether it's in sports, your job, or school, I firmly believe if you go the extra mile, you have set yourself up for success.
Now that that is out of the way, let's move on to efficiency. There are many different definitions of efficiency, but I'm going to settle on using this one; skillfulness in avoiding wasted time and effort. So for me, this means if you go the extra mile, while being efficient and not wasting time or effort, you are two up on your competition. Just think what will happen if you don't waste time. That would be incredible in every facet of the word.
Moving on, now we are on excellence. In my opinion, if you go the extra mile, and you're efficient at the same time, you have to be excellent. Efficiency breeds excellence. When you are excellent, you are successful. Look at Rob Dyrdek, Travis Pastrana, Steve Jobs, Mark Zuckerburg, Warren Buffett, and Bill Gates. All of them are excellent in their own entity. I'll say it again, efficiency breeds excellence, which ultimately breeds success.
Call them what you want, the '3 E's' are what you need to follow to get you to where you want to be. That's really all I have for this one. I don't think I'll update for at least a week because I have a busy week coming up, so hopefully there is enough here to last.
I'll end it with a quote...
"Desire is the key to motivation, but its determination and commitment to an unrelenting pursuit of your goal- a commitment to excellence- that will enable you to attain the success you seek."
Think about that for a second. After I wrote that, I was preparing how I would say that during my presentation to the class. I played with different ways to say it, and one thing kept coming back to me. As I really thought about that, I decided those three things were meant for more than just a public relations department. I just kept thinking if I would live my life based on those three things, everything would be fine.
You know, I have really been thinking about this. Just think, if for everything you did in life, you were willing to go the extra mile, you were efficient, and you were excellent, wouldn't you set yourself up for success? In my eyes the answer is yes.
Let's start with a willingness to go the extra mile. If you are willing to do whatever it takes, you will put yourself ahead, I promise you that. Whether it's in sports, your job, or school, I firmly believe if you go the extra mile, you have set yourself up for success.
Now that that is out of the way, let's move on to efficiency. There are many different definitions of efficiency, but I'm going to settle on using this one; skillfulness in avoiding wasted time and effort. So for me, this means if you go the extra mile, while being efficient and not wasting time or effort, you are two up on your competition. Just think what will happen if you don't waste time. That would be incredible in every facet of the word.
Moving on, now we are on excellence. In my opinion, if you go the extra mile, and you're efficient at the same time, you have to be excellent. Efficiency breeds excellence. When you are excellent, you are successful. Look at Rob Dyrdek, Travis Pastrana, Steve Jobs, Mark Zuckerburg, Warren Buffett, and Bill Gates. All of them are excellent in their own entity. I'll say it again, efficiency breeds excellence, which ultimately breeds success.
Call them what you want, the '3 E's' are what you need to follow to get you to where you want to be. That's really all I have for this one. I don't think I'll update for at least a week because I have a busy week coming up, so hopefully there is enough here to last.
I'll end it with a quote...
"Desire is the key to motivation, but its determination and commitment to an unrelenting pursuit of your goal- a commitment to excellence- that will enable you to attain the success you seek."
July 30, 2010
One crazy little thought
So far in my 20 years of life, there has been one thing and one thing only guys have let control their mind. This thing, it's tangible. In our mind, it's beautiful. No matter how much we try to not think about it, every time we do. I have seen this in about every guy I know. This thought I'm talking about is a girl.
I kind of had a little bit of a revelation this morning about this topic. I say revelation because I had a thought this morning during a conversation that I previously had not known. Well, I had known, but I just didn't acknowledge it. The fact is, there is only thing in the world guys let control their mind. I think this is what sets guys apart from girls. Other thoughts run through our mind, but only one thought stays there. The thought isn't about girls, it's about a single girl. That thought controls how we act really. Even when you try to not think about her, you do.
This thought about that girl makes you do things you don't do. For instance, driving an hour and twenty minutes to go see her or trying to do something special for her by taking her out or taking her soup when she is sick. This thought gives us doubts too though. It's really pretty crazy this one thought can control our lives.
One thing that should be addressed though, and this is more for the ladies. When a guy drives to come see you, or tells you how he feels about you, show some love. C'mon! We know you play games, we get that, we don't necessarily understand that, but we know you do it. Just give us a little something back. At least let him know you appreciate it. The guys try so hard in some cases, and it would be nice to see a little effort in return.
I think one of the craziest things about relationships is the 'chase.' The thrill lies within the 'chase.' Personally, I think it's kind of fun. All the games, the talks, etc. I think you have found the right one when the thrill of being with her far outweighs the thrill of the 'chase.'
I don't know about any of this. I could be wrong, but probably not because I am always right. I know I'm sticking to what I think, you can stick to what you think. I know you get to a point and you think it's not worth it. Just play the game. You live to die another day. Follow your heart and everything should work out. If it doesn't work out, you have found the wrong person and it's time to move on. Let the 'chase' begin again!
I kind of had a little bit of a revelation this morning about this topic. I say revelation because I had a thought this morning during a conversation that I previously had not known. Well, I had known, but I just didn't acknowledge it. The fact is, there is only thing in the world guys let control their mind. I think this is what sets guys apart from girls. Other thoughts run through our mind, but only one thought stays there. The thought isn't about girls, it's about a single girl. That thought controls how we act really. Even when you try to not think about her, you do.
This thought about that girl makes you do things you don't do. For instance, driving an hour and twenty minutes to go see her or trying to do something special for her by taking her out or taking her soup when she is sick. This thought gives us doubts too though. It's really pretty crazy this one thought can control our lives.
One thing that should be addressed though, and this is more for the ladies. When a guy drives to come see you, or tells you how he feels about you, show some love. C'mon! We know you play games, we get that, we don't necessarily understand that, but we know you do it. Just give us a little something back. At least let him know you appreciate it. The guys try so hard in some cases, and it would be nice to see a little effort in return.
I think one of the craziest things about relationships is the 'chase.' The thrill lies within the 'chase.' Personally, I think it's kind of fun. All the games, the talks, etc. I think you have found the right one when the thrill of being with her far outweighs the thrill of the 'chase.'
I don't know about any of this. I could be wrong, but probably not because I am always right. I know I'm sticking to what I think, you can stick to what you think. I know you get to a point and you think it's not worth it. Just play the game. You live to die another day. Follow your heart and everything should work out. If it doesn't work out, you have found the wrong person and it's time to move on. Let the 'chase' begin again!
July 29, 2010
Live the Regrets
So I do not normally do this. By this I mean writing consecutive posts in consecutive days. Something caught me today though. Something actually that I had all wrong from the beginning. I'm talking about 'regrets' in this post, so bear with me here.
What is life without regrets? I don't really have the answer to that, but I can tell you life would be different. I saw a movie today. The movie I watched was called "Tuesdays with Morrie." I haven't read the book yet, but you know what they say. If there is a great book, watch the movie first, and then read the book. The book is always better. For me, the movie was good. I learned a lot, although the book will probably teach me more. What I like about "Tuesdays with Morrie," is that it's real. It's based on a true story. I'm not going to tell you about the movie or the book because I won't do it justice. You need to go check it out for yourself. This movie really got me thinking.
What is life without regrets? I still don't have this answer. Here is something I learned from the movie. "Death ends a life, not a relationship." So many people look at death and they think, 'I wish I would have done this or that.' 'I wish we would have talked more, or hung out more, or something along those lines.' People see death as the end of that relationship. Someone you loved is gone, and you will never be able to talk to them again. Is that true? That person lives on through your thoughts and memories. That is all you have left of that particular person. Use those thoughts and memories to continue your relationship with that person. I guess you could say it's your turn to talk, and their turn to listen. Remember, "Death ends a life, not a relationship."
What is life without regrets? I don't really have this answer, but I will share my thoughts on regrets. Here is what I got wrong. I always thought I should live life without regrets. Sounds like a great idea. Why in the world would anyone want to have regrets? I don't want regrets, but I know I'm going to have them. It's impossible to live life without regrets! No matter the situation, you will always think twice about something. What if I would have said it in a different tone? What if I said this, instead of that? See that's regret. That's where I got it wrong.
What is life without regrets? Life without regrets is not life. It's a fantasy world. Having regret is life. In some situations, it may not be good to have regret, but you will learn from that, and the next time it happens, you will know what to do. That's what it's all about, using regrets to further your life. Use the regrets to make the right choice next time. As you grow up, you use past experiences to enhance your being in the future. Is that regrets? Possibly. So, don't live life without any regrets, you may not learn anything. Now, for the harder question...
What is the meaning of life? I know I don't have the answer to that one. Morrie Schwartz may...
What is life without regrets? I don't really have the answer to that, but I can tell you life would be different. I saw a movie today. The movie I watched was called "Tuesdays with Morrie." I haven't read the book yet, but you know what they say. If there is a great book, watch the movie first, and then read the book. The book is always better. For me, the movie was good. I learned a lot, although the book will probably teach me more. What I like about "Tuesdays with Morrie," is that it's real. It's based on a true story. I'm not going to tell you about the movie or the book because I won't do it justice. You need to go check it out for yourself. This movie really got me thinking.
What is life without regrets? I still don't have this answer. Here is something I learned from the movie. "Death ends a life, not a relationship." So many people look at death and they think, 'I wish I would have done this or that.' 'I wish we would have talked more, or hung out more, or something along those lines.' People see death as the end of that relationship. Someone you loved is gone, and you will never be able to talk to them again. Is that true? That person lives on through your thoughts and memories. That is all you have left of that particular person. Use those thoughts and memories to continue your relationship with that person. I guess you could say it's your turn to talk, and their turn to listen. Remember, "Death ends a life, not a relationship."
What is life without regrets? I don't really have this answer, but I will share my thoughts on regrets. Here is what I got wrong. I always thought I should live life without regrets. Sounds like a great idea. Why in the world would anyone want to have regrets? I don't want regrets, but I know I'm going to have them. It's impossible to live life without regrets! No matter the situation, you will always think twice about something. What if I would have said it in a different tone? What if I said this, instead of that? See that's regret. That's where I got it wrong.
What is life without regrets? Life without regrets is not life. It's a fantasy world. Having regret is life. In some situations, it may not be good to have regret, but you will learn from that, and the next time it happens, you will know what to do. That's what it's all about, using regrets to further your life. Use the regrets to make the right choice next time. As you grow up, you use past experiences to enhance your being in the future. Is that regrets? Possibly. So, don't live life without any regrets, you may not learn anything. Now, for the harder question...
What is the meaning of life? I know I don't have the answer to that one. Morrie Schwartz may...
July 27, 2010
TO and Trust... Interesting
I ended the last post talking about trust, and if that is what you are here for, I will get there I promise I just have to get through a little bit before I get there.
The is for Erika...
Today the Cincinnati Bengals signed Terrell Owens to a 1-year contract worth $2 million dollars. My first impression was... I don't think I really had a first impression. For laziness sake, I'll refer to him as TO. For me, TO is like the person who you were best friends with but as the years go by, you just lose touch with them and they aren't even your friend anymore. I used to be a big San Francisco 49ers fan when Jerry Rice played. TO was opposite Rice and therefore I grew to like TO. He was a great football player. As the years went on, I grew to not like TO. He went from my friend, to an enemy of sorts. As an Eagle, he was a joke, and he was a joke in Dallas. In Buffalo, he didn't produce, but that can also be attributed to his team, or lack there of. I think TO has potential in Cincinnati. Their receiving core is overcrowded, which makes me question the move, but he can add something to the team. Am I happy he is in Cincinnati now? Ask me after the season and I'll let you know. Am I mad he is in Cincinnati now? See the answer above. Here is what I will say. In my opinion, TO needs to come in and work hard, and not be a fool. The Bengals already have a jokester on the team in Ochocinco. If TO comes in and accepts his role, and works hard, he should be able to survive in Cincy. From what I have heard, most Bengals fans are happy he is there, as for my reaction, ask me after the season.
Now for the trust part...
Trust is an unbelievable phenomena of sorts. I say phenomena because trust is visible everywhere you look and it really is unbelievable. When you drive, you have trust. You trust yourself to make the right decisions about when to turn and when to slow down. You trust the other people on the road to do the exact same thing. But trust is so much more than that. I don't know what the most important thing in a relationship is, but I know that trust is up there. For me, trust is a HUGE factor. Not necessarily trust in the sense of being able to trust a partner to be faithful, but for me, it's about confidentiality. Outside of family, only one person really knows everything about me. And even in that case, there is still more to know, and I don't know if that person will know EVERYTHING about me. But for me, trust is built. It isn't something that is given out. That one person, I have complete trust in that person. In this case, I have left myself vulnerable, but it's the trust that I have in that person that makes it okay.
I would even goes as far to say that the only people who will truly know everything about me are my best friend, and the girl I decide to marry. It's trust. Those two people have earned/ or will earn my complete trust. I know with my best friend that I can tell him anything, and yeah I may be judged, but I know that person isn't going to tell everyone. I would hope that I can find a girl who I can share the same thing with. It's a crazy thing, but at the same time it's pretty cool. I would encourage you to really think about trust, and then think about when someone tells you something. There is a reason that person is telling you that. Look at who that person is, and then look at who you are. Once you have done that, do something to reassure that person of the trust they have instilled in you. Thank them, kiss them, do whatever it is you do, just let them know you care.
The is for Erika...
Today the Cincinnati Bengals signed Terrell Owens to a 1-year contract worth $2 million dollars. My first impression was... I don't think I really had a first impression. For laziness sake, I'll refer to him as TO. For me, TO is like the person who you were best friends with but as the years go by, you just lose touch with them and they aren't even your friend anymore. I used to be a big San Francisco 49ers fan when Jerry Rice played. TO was opposite Rice and therefore I grew to like TO. He was a great football player. As the years went on, I grew to not like TO. He went from my friend, to an enemy of sorts. As an Eagle, he was a joke, and he was a joke in Dallas. In Buffalo, he didn't produce, but that can also be attributed to his team, or lack there of. I think TO has potential in Cincinnati. Their receiving core is overcrowded, which makes me question the move, but he can add something to the team. Am I happy he is in Cincinnati now? Ask me after the season and I'll let you know. Am I mad he is in Cincinnati now? See the answer above. Here is what I will say. In my opinion, TO needs to come in and work hard, and not be a fool. The Bengals already have a jokester on the team in Ochocinco. If TO comes in and accepts his role, and works hard, he should be able to survive in Cincy. From what I have heard, most Bengals fans are happy he is there, as for my reaction, ask me after the season.
Now for the trust part...
Trust is an unbelievable phenomena of sorts. I say phenomena because trust is visible everywhere you look and it really is unbelievable. When you drive, you have trust. You trust yourself to make the right decisions about when to turn and when to slow down. You trust the other people on the road to do the exact same thing. But trust is so much more than that. I don't know what the most important thing in a relationship is, but I know that trust is up there. For me, trust is a HUGE factor. Not necessarily trust in the sense of being able to trust a partner to be faithful, but for me, it's about confidentiality. Outside of family, only one person really knows everything about me. And even in that case, there is still more to know, and I don't know if that person will know EVERYTHING about me. But for me, trust is built. It isn't something that is given out. That one person, I have complete trust in that person. In this case, I have left myself vulnerable, but it's the trust that I have in that person that makes it okay.
I would even goes as far to say that the only people who will truly know everything about me are my best friend, and the girl I decide to marry. It's trust. Those two people have earned/ or will earn my complete trust. I know with my best friend that I can tell him anything, and yeah I may be judged, but I know that person isn't going to tell everyone. I would hope that I can find a girl who I can share the same thing with. It's a crazy thing, but at the same time it's pretty cool. I would encourage you to really think about trust, and then think about when someone tells you something. There is a reason that person is telling you that. Look at who that person is, and then look at who you are. Once you have done that, do something to reassure that person of the trust they have instilled in you. Thank them, kiss them, do whatever it is you do, just let them know you care.
July 19, 2010
2 Questions and No Answers
I don't really understand why I am writing right now. Coming off of writing the longest paper I have ever written in my life, I can't seem to stop writing. My paper: 32 pages. I was stating a case on why Major League Baseball should move a team to Portland, Oregon. Do I really think it can happen, yes, it is only a matter of time.
You ever have thoughts about knowing something, but refusing to accept it? For example, you know nothing will happen between you and this girl, but you just will not accept 'no' for an answer. It could be something like knowing you are not going to get your mom to buy you that new pair of shoes you want, but you need to try, and be persistent. Why? Because there is that .01% chance that you will get that thing. If you are a good salesperson, you can get that pair of shoes somehow. It is that .01% that keeps people going, especially in terms of the opposite sex. For guys, I think it is one of things that starts off as... "Okay, well I will try because I know I will be thinking about this later and then I will get mad at myself if I don't." But, this slowly turns into... "I do not know what it is about this girl, but I do not want to accept the fact she does not like me." There is always something making a guy feel this way. Whether it is a text message, a word, or something random happening one night, there is always something. It could even be something the girl told to the guy's friend who obviously told his buddy because that is what friends do. No matter the case, there is one thing the guy always gets caught up in making him feel that way. Is there a cure? Time. At this point, it is hard, but only time will heel you guys. That is, time away from her. Go out, live your life, and be free!
My other big thought for the night is about opening up.
When is it acceptable to open up? It is very common to have the one person who you can literally tell everything to, and if you do not, you at least are trying to establish that with someone. My thing is, when can you open up? You cannot establish your "go to" person and then the next day open up. I would think you start with little things, you know, things that do not really matter, but it is worth letting someone know. So, when do you open up? I am no expert so I do not have the answer to this question. For me, I do not open up to people. It is really hard to open up, and everyone wants to believe there is someone on the other end of the conversation who actually cares about you. It may be true there are things no one has ever shared with anyone else, and those things kind of eat away at people. Opening up is hard! Friends are the big X-factor on this one. Everyone has that friend who thinks they know everything about you, and really that friend knows nothing about you. Everyone also has that friend you want to have know everything about you. How do you get the latter friend to know? Trust? Trust is tough. You think you can trust someone, but you give them the deepest information about yourself and they run away. All this, only to find yourself alone again. Trust. That word is deep. I will talk about it more next time, but just realize if someone wants to open up to you, they want you to be there for some reason. Do not run away, or turn your back. Be there.
Every day I carry these things with me everywhere I go:
Phone, keys, wallet, chap stick, and a 3 X 5 index card that reads three things. If you are lucky, you will get to know what those three things say.
Until next time... Life is too short to let great opportunities pass you by.
You ever have thoughts about knowing something, but refusing to accept it? For example, you know nothing will happen between you and this girl, but you just will not accept 'no' for an answer. It could be something like knowing you are not going to get your mom to buy you that new pair of shoes you want, but you need to try, and be persistent. Why? Because there is that .01% chance that you will get that thing. If you are a good salesperson, you can get that pair of shoes somehow. It is that .01% that keeps people going, especially in terms of the opposite sex. For guys, I think it is one of things that starts off as... "Okay, well I will try because I know I will be thinking about this later and then I will get mad at myself if I don't." But, this slowly turns into... "I do not know what it is about this girl, but I do not want to accept the fact she does not like me." There is always something making a guy feel this way. Whether it is a text message, a word, or something random happening one night, there is always something. It could even be something the girl told to the guy's friend who obviously told his buddy because that is what friends do. No matter the case, there is one thing the guy always gets caught up in making him feel that way. Is there a cure? Time. At this point, it is hard, but only time will heel you guys. That is, time away from her. Go out, live your life, and be free!
My other big thought for the night is about opening up.
When is it acceptable to open up? It is very common to have the one person who you can literally tell everything to, and if you do not, you at least are trying to establish that with someone. My thing is, when can you open up? You cannot establish your "go to" person and then the next day open up. I would think you start with little things, you know, things that do not really matter, but it is worth letting someone know. So, when do you open up? I am no expert so I do not have the answer to this question. For me, I do not open up to people. It is really hard to open up, and everyone wants to believe there is someone on the other end of the conversation who actually cares about you. It may be true there are things no one has ever shared with anyone else, and those things kind of eat away at people. Opening up is hard! Friends are the big X-factor on this one. Everyone has that friend who thinks they know everything about you, and really that friend knows nothing about you. Everyone also has that friend you want to have know everything about you. How do you get the latter friend to know? Trust? Trust is tough. You think you can trust someone, but you give them the deepest information about yourself and they run away. All this, only to find yourself alone again. Trust. That word is deep. I will talk about it more next time, but just realize if someone wants to open up to you, they want you to be there for some reason. Do not run away, or turn your back. Be there.
Every day I carry these things with me everywhere I go:
Phone, keys, wallet, chap stick, and a 3 X 5 index card that reads three things. If you are lucky, you will get to know what those three things say.
Until next time... Life is too short to let great opportunities pass you by.
July 8, 2010
The King of....?
Here is my buddy's view on the whole Lebron James situation. When you read this, keep in mind he is a die hard Browns, Indians, and Cavaliers fan. He is one who likes/liked LBJ... it starts with the title he gave it, and then writes about how he feels about Lebron...Enjoy!
Why LeBron James is the biggest disappointment in professional sports
Let me just start by saying that two years ago, I disagreed with Skip Bayless on almost everything that he said concerning LeBron James. My how things have changed. This whole situation has been building up for the last two years, so I figure that I might as well say it.
LeBron James, GET THE HELL OUT OF CLEVELAND.
When LBJ came into the league as an 18 year old phenom from Akron, he was expected to resurrect the city of Cleveland from the furthest depths of sports failure. He was even called "the Chosen One", which is a ridiculous coronation for a kid who had proved nothing at that point of his career. And he has still not proven that he has deserved all the attention that he has gotten. For all the endorsements, the publicity, the individual awards, he has still not won a championship. And I'm not saying that LeBron is a failure because he didn't win a championship in Cleveland; its all about the way he handled himself within the last two seasons. It has everything to do with his attitude toward his team, his city, and most of all, his attitude about himself.
For a long time, even as recently as last year, I considered LBJ to be a great leader. And I still believe that he was for the first five years of his career. They had no buisness taking the Pistons or Celtics to seven games in 2006 and 2008 or going to the NBA Finals in 2007. But he made his teammates better. Unfortunately, that is no longer the case. When he disappeared in those last three games vs Boston, I finally realized that a truly great leader would not have quit on his team. Ever. Unlike Dwayne Wade, who won 47 games this year with Michael Beasley as his next best player, LeBron did nothing to make his team better when it really mattered. He also would not put a stop to the questions about his upcoming free agency, which any good leader would have done in order to keep his teammates focused.
The attitude LeBron had toward the city of Cleveland has been awful. Dan Gilbert gave him the best facilities, a ton of money, and a GM who, despite what people may think, did an overall damn good job. So what does he do? He puts his fans and the Cavaliers through the circus because he cares more about his recruitment than about keeping the best interests of the team who has been so good to him for seven years in mind. This man is supposedly so loyal to his only team and his hometown area, but he can't keep his free agency experience quiet and simple. Not to mention that he has pretty much held the city hostage while pointing a gun to it's head.
Which leads me to my biggest reason the LeBron is such a huge disappointment. He has let his ego get completely out of control. Forgive me if I rant on and on about this one.
First off, he allows reporters to ask questions about when he would become a free agent. TWO YEARS AGO. Does that seem normal to any of you? Then he makes teams come to Cleveland to woo him because he wants to be "courted" by certain teams. LeBron James, you are a bigger tease than just about any college female. I feel like I have been watching some crappy dating show instead of ESPN for the past week. Not only that, he ASKS ESPN for a one hour special to announce his decision. Seriously? He just wants the whole world to have their eyes on him. He is definitely "The King", not because he has won anything significant, but because he is just as needy as one. If you asked him, I bet LeBron would tell you that he was given a "divine right". What happened to the humble kid from just down the road in Akron? The only thing that Michael Jordan, Kobe Bryant, Larry Bird, Dwyane Wade or Kareem Abdul-Jabbar ever wanted attention for was winning. LBJ has become too worried about being a global icon and not enough about becoming a champion. Oh don't worry LeBron, you will become globally known. But if anyone else who cares about basketball can see through you, about 95% of them will hate you.
Which leads me to my conclusion. I don't know about anybody reading this note, but I do know that I have completely lost respect for LeBron James. According to speculation (and a good buddy of mine), he is almost guaranteed heading to Miami to play with Dwyane Wade and Chris Bosh. Well, thats just fine with me. I don't care how many championships he wins in his career, whether it is one or five. He will always be a selfish disappointing loser in my book because he lost what no one with his fame and fortune can afford to lose: his humility.
So LeBron, enjoy wherever it is you are going. I just hope now that its not Cleveland. While the city does desperately need a championship, it also deserves a true sports hero. Myself personally, I can wait as long as it takes for one to show up.
Why LeBron James is the biggest disappointment in professional sports
Let me just start by saying that two years ago, I disagreed with Skip Bayless on almost everything that he said concerning LeBron James. My how things have changed. This whole situation has been building up for the last two years, so I figure that I might as well say it.
LeBron James, GET THE HELL OUT OF CLEVELAND.
When LBJ came into the league as an 18 year old phenom from Akron, he was expected to resurrect the city of Cleveland from the furthest depths of sports failure. He was even called "the Chosen One", which is a ridiculous coronation for a kid who had proved nothing at that point of his career. And he has still not proven that he has deserved all the attention that he has gotten. For all the endorsements, the publicity, the individual awards, he has still not won a championship. And I'm not saying that LeBron is a failure because he didn't win a championship in Cleveland; its all about the way he handled himself within the last two seasons. It has everything to do with his attitude toward his team, his city, and most of all, his attitude about himself.
For a long time, even as recently as last year, I considered LBJ to be a great leader. And I still believe that he was for the first five years of his career. They had no buisness taking the Pistons or Celtics to seven games in 2006 and 2008 or going to the NBA Finals in 2007. But he made his teammates better. Unfortunately, that is no longer the case. When he disappeared in those last three games vs Boston, I finally realized that a truly great leader would not have quit on his team. Ever. Unlike Dwayne Wade, who won 47 games this year with Michael Beasley as his next best player, LeBron did nothing to make his team better when it really mattered. He also would not put a stop to the questions about his upcoming free agency, which any good leader would have done in order to keep his teammates focused.
The attitude LeBron had toward the city of Cleveland has been awful. Dan Gilbert gave him the best facilities, a ton of money, and a GM who, despite what people may think, did an overall damn good job. So what does he do? He puts his fans and the Cavaliers through the circus because he cares more about his recruitment than about keeping the best interests of the team who has been so good to him for seven years in mind. This man is supposedly so loyal to his only team and his hometown area, but he can't keep his free agency experience quiet and simple. Not to mention that he has pretty much held the city hostage while pointing a gun to it's head.
Which leads me to my biggest reason the LeBron is such a huge disappointment. He has let his ego get completely out of control. Forgive me if I rant on and on about this one.
First off, he allows reporters to ask questions about when he would become a free agent. TWO YEARS AGO. Does that seem normal to any of you? Then he makes teams come to Cleveland to woo him because he wants to be "courted" by certain teams. LeBron James, you are a bigger tease than just about any college female. I feel like I have been watching some crappy dating show instead of ESPN for the past week. Not only that, he ASKS ESPN for a one hour special to announce his decision. Seriously? He just wants the whole world to have their eyes on him. He is definitely "The King", not because he has won anything significant, but because he is just as needy as one. If you asked him, I bet LeBron would tell you that he was given a "divine right". What happened to the humble kid from just down the road in Akron? The only thing that Michael Jordan, Kobe Bryant, Larry Bird, Dwyane Wade or Kareem Abdul-Jabbar ever wanted attention for was winning. LBJ has become too worried about being a global icon and not enough about becoming a champion. Oh don't worry LeBron, you will become globally known. But if anyone else who cares about basketball can see through you, about 95% of them will hate you.
Which leads me to my conclusion. I don't know about anybody reading this note, but I do know that I have completely lost respect for LeBron James. According to speculation (and a good buddy of mine), he is almost guaranteed heading to Miami to play with Dwyane Wade and Chris Bosh. Well, thats just fine with me. I don't care how many championships he wins in his career, whether it is one or five. He will always be a selfish disappointing loser in my book because he lost what no one with his fame and fortune can afford to lose: his humility.
So LeBron, enjoy wherever it is you are going. I just hope now that its not Cleveland. While the city does desperately need a championship, it also deserves a true sports hero. Myself personally, I can wait as long as it takes for one to show up.
June 28, 2010
July Rebounds
So, in case you didn't notice. My blog has changed. Personally I love the mountain in the background, as well clearness of the raindrops in the forefront.
So let's set up a situation. A girl breaks up with her boyfriend, and you like this girl. What do you do?
Common sense would tell you talk to her, ask her to hang out, and then pursue her. But I am here to tell you, that common sense is wrong, especially if you like the girl. What do I mean? It's simple. No guy should ever be the rebound guy, EVER. Here is what happens when you are the rebound guy... you talk to her, get to know a little more, you take her out, she lets pay you for dinner and a movie, and then she drops the friend card. Let's be honest ladies... after every time you break up with a guy, you want another to fill the void for the time being. Not because you like the guy, but because you just want someone to be there. You play games. It's true, and whether or not you want to admit you do it, it is wrong! Okay, so as the guy, what do you do? You talk to her, get to know her a little, but do not be the rebound guy. I repeat, do not be the rebound guy. If there is another guy, you might think you are trying to beat him, but honestly you should let him win. That way, he is the rebound guy, and when she chews him up and spits him out, you are not the rebound guy, but her boyfriend. It's really that simple! Although the simplicity of the situation is overshadowed by emotions and 'love' the thing is, it's simple.
In light of July 4th being right around the corner, let's talk fireworks. I love fireworks!! I love the loud booms and the many bright colors. That is why July 4th is one of my favorite holidays. Things that involve this wonderful holiday: Friends, Family, Cookouts, Swim parties, and of course Fireworks!!! Those 5 things cannot be beat. I love it and can't wait for next weekend!
So let's set up a situation. A girl breaks up with her boyfriend, and you like this girl. What do you do?
Common sense would tell you talk to her, ask her to hang out, and then pursue her. But I am here to tell you, that common sense is wrong, especially if you like the girl. What do I mean? It's simple. No guy should ever be the rebound guy, EVER. Here is what happens when you are the rebound guy... you talk to her, get to know a little more, you take her out, she lets pay you for dinner and a movie, and then she drops the friend card. Let's be honest ladies... after every time you break up with a guy, you want another to fill the void for the time being. Not because you like the guy, but because you just want someone to be there. You play games. It's true, and whether or not you want to admit you do it, it is wrong! Okay, so as the guy, what do you do? You talk to her, get to know her a little, but do not be the rebound guy. I repeat, do not be the rebound guy. If there is another guy, you might think you are trying to beat him, but honestly you should let him win. That way, he is the rebound guy, and when she chews him up and spits him out, you are not the rebound guy, but her boyfriend. It's really that simple! Although the simplicity of the situation is overshadowed by emotions and 'love' the thing is, it's simple.
In light of July 4th being right around the corner, let's talk fireworks. I love fireworks!! I love the loud booms and the many bright colors. That is why July 4th is one of my favorite holidays. Things that involve this wonderful holiday: Friends, Family, Cookouts, Swim parties, and of course Fireworks!!! Those 5 things cannot be beat. I love it and can't wait for next weekend!
June 27, 2010
Wheelin' and Dealin'
Let's talk.... 3rd wheel. Is it okay to be a 3rd wheel? Or is it against the rules? Well, here's some insight from my point of view on the situation...
If your friend comes in and says 'hey so and so and I are going out to dinner and then we're going out to a movie,' it is not okay to jump in and say 'hey, I'm coming with.' Seriously, if this happens and you are trying to 3rd wheel, it is absolutely necessary for you to go out and get another friend so you don't have to sit alone all by yourself at night.
If your friend comes in and says 'hey so and so and I are going out to dinner and then we're going out to a movie,' it is perfectly fine for you to say 'alright, sounds fun.' It is only okay to that do once or twice. You would be a good friend if most of the time you said 'no that's alright, you guys go out and have a good time.' Sometimes they will really want you to come, and that's fine, but make sure every time they ask, you don't say yes. At some point, you might want to still go out and find another friend, you know, for the times you say no.
New subject...
Some people have problems. When they like someone, they ask others for advice. Really though, others have no say in what goes on. So, if you're looking for advice, here is mine... Stop asking for advice. When it comes down to it, you should do what you want to do. No one else's opinion should matter. At times, it may be tough to deal with the decision making, but bottom line, you gotta get over it.
Take the time to go out today and put yourself above your competition. Although you may get 'lost' with love and other such things, remember that there is competition everywhere. Don't sit back and ponder what your competitor is doing, get up and go find out. Once you know, beat him/her. Be pro-active, not re-active. If you are reactive then your competitor has you beat and they will be one step ahead of you. It doesn't hurt to go out and figure it out, and then do something to get ahead. Don't lose yourself though, because once you lose yourself, will lose the battle every time!
Until next time... do something that will put you ahead for a change!
If your friend comes in and says 'hey so and so and I are going out to dinner and then we're going out to a movie,' it is not okay to jump in and say 'hey, I'm coming with.' Seriously, if this happens and you are trying to 3rd wheel, it is absolutely necessary for you to go out and get another friend so you don't have to sit alone all by yourself at night.
If your friend comes in and says 'hey so and so and I are going out to dinner and then we're going out to a movie,' it is perfectly fine for you to say 'alright, sounds fun.' It is only okay to that do once or twice. You would be a good friend if most of the time you said 'no that's alright, you guys go out and have a good time.' Sometimes they will really want you to come, and that's fine, but make sure every time they ask, you don't say yes. At some point, you might want to still go out and find another friend, you know, for the times you say no.
New subject...
Some people have problems. When they like someone, they ask others for advice. Really though, others have no say in what goes on. So, if you're looking for advice, here is mine... Stop asking for advice. When it comes down to it, you should do what you want to do. No one else's opinion should matter. At times, it may be tough to deal with the decision making, but bottom line, you gotta get over it.
Take the time to go out today and put yourself above your competition. Although you may get 'lost' with love and other such things, remember that there is competition everywhere. Don't sit back and ponder what your competitor is doing, get up and go find out. Once you know, beat him/her. Be pro-active, not re-active. If you are reactive then your competitor has you beat and they will be one step ahead of you. It doesn't hurt to go out and figure it out, and then do something to get ahead. Don't lose yourself though, because once you lose yourself, will lose the battle every time!
Until next time... do something that will put you ahead for a change!
June 25, 2010
Fearing Peace
Just a quick note here. I know it's been quite some time, but I think it's time to for this post.
First thing is first. I know I have faults, I get that, I do! Just know you have faults too!
I don't know if any of you know this about me, I have a fear. This is my one and only fear! I have a fear of dieing alone. I want this reassurance from someone that can tell me, they will be right by my side when it's my time to go. I don't what brought this about, but it is something I have put a ton of thought into. Maybe some of you who know me on a more personal level, know that I don't like to be alone. For some strange reason, I don't like to go places without someone going with me. Does it hinder me at times? Of course! But, that isn't going to change who I am. It really kind of makes me mad really though, you know the whole needing someone there with me. I don't know why? I have flown on an airplane by myself, but yet when it comes to going shopping, I need someone there with me!
That is one thing, I think, that really is different about me. I feel a need to have someone there. for the whole dieing alone thing, I really hope I get over that one day, because it wouldn't be me to put myself before other people. I would rather die alone so no one grieves over me. Honestly, it's who I am.
Anyone ever wish they could just tell someone their BIG secret, not just who you have a crush on, but your BIG secret? For me personally, I wish that everyday! And no, I'm not gay!
I have recently found out there are few things that put me at complete peace...
1) Thunderstorms- I could sit through thunderstorms everyday and be perfectly fine for the rest of my life. There is something about the sound of the rain mixed with the brightness of lightning and the booms of thunder that really just takes all the thoughts out of my mind. I love it! I would choose a night listening to thunderstorms over a night of going out.
2) Stars- I love looking at the stars. I really don't know why I, or anyone else enjoys that? But, my guess, at least on my part, is the curiosity of the unknown. For me, it's like a child's dream of going up there and exploring, although I really have no aspirations of going into space. Regardless, it's been a long time since I have actually laid down and taken the time to look up at the stars, and that is something I would definitely like to look into in the near future!
3) Lightning Bugs- Seriously, Lightning Bugs? Yes, LIGHTNING BUGS! I drove by this big open field last week and I thought it was one of the coolest things I had seen in a long time. What was it? A bunch of Lightning Bugs flying around and lighting up! It was awesome, until the Thunderstorm came the next day. The power went out in the house so my brother and I were completely bored. The cool part? Lightning Bugs. I looked out the window as the rain had started to die down. I looked into the trees from across the street. Lightning Bugs were hiding in the trees and lighting up. Imagine it being pitch black and see these little specks of flashing light. And I thought that was cool? Yes, until I looked in my backyard. My backyard is basically surrounded by trees. The backyard seemed to be even darker, and the Lightning Bugs were more sufficient. There were so many of those things hiding in the trees lighting up in the pitch black. It might have been the coolest thing I have EVER seen!
4) Baseball Games- At this point in my life, I have decided that going to a Cincinnati Reds game is almost as soothing as it gets. You get great food, a good amount of excitedness, as well as the relaxed time you have been seeking recently. For me, I have decided I could possibly spend every one of my last days on Earth being in a baseball stadium. There is just some type of aura about the baseball stadium that I tend to fall in love with. Don't ask why, but it is something I could do for the rest of my life. Do you think I'll be buying season tickets to the Reds when I am retired? If I am even remotely close to Cincinnati, the answer is a definite yes!
The one thing that really bothers me... how the love I have for sports hasn't carried over to a possible love I have for a girl. I know the whole shindig, there is someone for everyone. Honestly, it gets old. And, now we're back to the whole being alone thing again....
First thing is first. I know I have faults, I get that, I do! Just know you have faults too!
I don't know if any of you know this about me, I have a fear. This is my one and only fear! I have a fear of dieing alone. I want this reassurance from someone that can tell me, they will be right by my side when it's my time to go. I don't what brought this about, but it is something I have put a ton of thought into. Maybe some of you who know me on a more personal level, know that I don't like to be alone. For some strange reason, I don't like to go places without someone going with me. Does it hinder me at times? Of course! But, that isn't going to change who I am. It really kind of makes me mad really though, you know the whole needing someone there with me. I don't know why? I have flown on an airplane by myself, but yet when it comes to going shopping, I need someone there with me!
That is one thing, I think, that really is different about me. I feel a need to have someone there. for the whole dieing alone thing, I really hope I get over that one day, because it wouldn't be me to put myself before other people. I would rather die alone so no one grieves over me. Honestly, it's who I am.
Anyone ever wish they could just tell someone their BIG secret, not just who you have a crush on, but your BIG secret? For me personally, I wish that everyday! And no, I'm not gay!
I have recently found out there are few things that put me at complete peace...
1) Thunderstorms- I could sit through thunderstorms everyday and be perfectly fine for the rest of my life. There is something about the sound of the rain mixed with the brightness of lightning and the booms of thunder that really just takes all the thoughts out of my mind. I love it! I would choose a night listening to thunderstorms over a night of going out.
2) Stars- I love looking at the stars. I really don't know why I, or anyone else enjoys that? But, my guess, at least on my part, is the curiosity of the unknown. For me, it's like a child's dream of going up there and exploring, although I really have no aspirations of going into space. Regardless, it's been a long time since I have actually laid down and taken the time to look up at the stars, and that is something I would definitely like to look into in the near future!
3) Lightning Bugs- Seriously, Lightning Bugs? Yes, LIGHTNING BUGS! I drove by this big open field last week and I thought it was one of the coolest things I had seen in a long time. What was it? A bunch of Lightning Bugs flying around and lighting up! It was awesome, until the Thunderstorm came the next day. The power went out in the house so my brother and I were completely bored. The cool part? Lightning Bugs. I looked out the window as the rain had started to die down. I looked into the trees from across the street. Lightning Bugs were hiding in the trees and lighting up. Imagine it being pitch black and see these little specks of flashing light. And I thought that was cool? Yes, until I looked in my backyard. My backyard is basically surrounded by trees. The backyard seemed to be even darker, and the Lightning Bugs were more sufficient. There were so many of those things hiding in the trees lighting up in the pitch black. It might have been the coolest thing I have EVER seen!
4) Baseball Games- At this point in my life, I have decided that going to a Cincinnati Reds game is almost as soothing as it gets. You get great food, a good amount of excitedness, as well as the relaxed time you have been seeking recently. For me, I have decided I could possibly spend every one of my last days on Earth being in a baseball stadium. There is just some type of aura about the baseball stadium that I tend to fall in love with. Don't ask why, but it is something I could do for the rest of my life. Do you think I'll be buying season tickets to the Reds when I am retired? If I am even remotely close to Cincinnati, the answer is a definite yes!
The one thing that really bothers me... how the love I have for sports hasn't carried over to a possible love I have for a girl. I know the whole shindig, there is someone for everyone. Honestly, it gets old. And, now we're back to the whole being alone thing again....
June 3, 2010
Replay Jr.
Actually, I really have nothing to say about "just" nice guys... The fact is, guys hate to hear they are such a nice guy. What they say is really true, nice guys finish last. Nice guy is a demeaning word when you think about it. To a guy, they never ever want to be called nice. It's like the word cute. Cute is just as bad. Actually cute may be worse. Cute is a one way road to the friend zone, and I think we all know once you get into the friend zone, there is no coming out. It's like the word 'just'. That might be the worst of all. When a girl pulls out 'just,' it's the end of road. When she says just friends, there is no hope for anything more. Does it suck? Yes, very much actually, but sometimes you 'just' have to deal with it. When this happens, you get stuck watching 3 Ninjas all by yourself on a Thursday night...
Now, onto bigger and better things...
Yesterday two things happened in the sports world, actually in the baseball world. An umpire threw away a perfect game. A perfect game is history. It's the greatest thing a pitcher could do throughout his career. Only 19 people have ever thrown a perfect game before, and an ump took away the 20th to ever happen. But, can we really blame the ump? He said he was sure the player was safe, that is until he saw the replay after the game. So, again I ask, can we really blame the ump? Let's not forget that in 2006, the players voted him the second best ump in baseball. Bottom line is, there is no way you can blame the umpire Jim Joyce for making a mistake. Mistakes are made by humans every day! We must blame the system for this one! Or maybe, we should blame Bud Selig. I mean really, he has the power to go back and call him out, but did he, no. Bud Selig is the one and only reason there is no instant replay in Major League Baseball. There needs to be instant replay to correct calls like this one that were missed. I guess that is the only good thing that will eventually come out of this whole debacle!
The one thing that is really too sad is, the misfortune above took away from the retirement of one of the greatest baseball players to walk the planet. He made his swing look so easy, and every kid aspired to him. His swing was smooth, but powerful. By far, he had the greatest swing I have ever seen. No matter what, every time he made contact with the ball, it looked as if it was headed out of the park. After 22 years, he has been ridiculed for leaving the club house early to go on vacation, sleeping in the locker room during a game, and an immense amount of injuries throughout the latter part of his career. If he were healthy the last 10 years he played, he would have no doubt been the best baseball player EVER. His 630 career home runs leaves him with the 5th most of all time. He was the first to wear his baseball cap backwards, and he changed the game of baseball trading cards as well. Personally, I have his rookie card. He was the first person picked in the 1987 MLB draft. Nicknamed "The Kid," during his 22 years, he truly was a kid doing what he loved. I have never seen him on the field not smiling. He will surely be elected on his first-ballot into the Hall of Fame. He made baseball fun, and that is the most important part. Memorable moments include: his amazing defensive catches which he made look so easy, his home run derby win, him and his father hitting back-to-back home runs in 1990, and his 600th home run as a Cincinnati Red. His talent overmatched everyone else's, and it seemed completely natural. He came in as a Seattle Mariner, and he left as a Seattle Mariner. He was their poster child, even when he wasn't a Mariner. Ken Griffey Jr. will be greatly missed in the game of baseball, and it is a shame his retirement seemed to have gone unnoticed! Junior, I have your rookie card, and I have a poster of you. You were my favorite player, and I will miss you in the game of baseball! Thanks for all the memories!
Now, onto bigger and better things...
Yesterday two things happened in the sports world, actually in the baseball world. An umpire threw away a perfect game. A perfect game is history. It's the greatest thing a pitcher could do throughout his career. Only 19 people have ever thrown a perfect game before, and an ump took away the 20th to ever happen. But, can we really blame the ump? He said he was sure the player was safe, that is until he saw the replay after the game. So, again I ask, can we really blame the ump? Let's not forget that in 2006, the players voted him the second best ump in baseball. Bottom line is, there is no way you can blame the umpire Jim Joyce for making a mistake. Mistakes are made by humans every day! We must blame the system for this one! Or maybe, we should blame Bud Selig. I mean really, he has the power to go back and call him out, but did he, no. Bud Selig is the one and only reason there is no instant replay in Major League Baseball. There needs to be instant replay to correct calls like this one that were missed. I guess that is the only good thing that will eventually come out of this whole debacle!
The one thing that is really too sad is, the misfortune above took away from the retirement of one of the greatest baseball players to walk the planet. He made his swing look so easy, and every kid aspired to him. His swing was smooth, but powerful. By far, he had the greatest swing I have ever seen. No matter what, every time he made contact with the ball, it looked as if it was headed out of the park. After 22 years, he has been ridiculed for leaving the club house early to go on vacation, sleeping in the locker room during a game, and an immense amount of injuries throughout the latter part of his career. If he were healthy the last 10 years he played, he would have no doubt been the best baseball player EVER. His 630 career home runs leaves him with the 5th most of all time. He was the first to wear his baseball cap backwards, and he changed the game of baseball trading cards as well. Personally, I have his rookie card. He was the first person picked in the 1987 MLB draft. Nicknamed "The Kid," during his 22 years, he truly was a kid doing what he loved. I have never seen him on the field not smiling. He will surely be elected on his first-ballot into the Hall of Fame. He made baseball fun, and that is the most important part. Memorable moments include: his amazing defensive catches which he made look so easy, his home run derby win, him and his father hitting back-to-back home runs in 1990, and his 600th home run as a Cincinnati Red. His talent overmatched everyone else's, and it seemed completely natural. He came in as a Seattle Mariner, and he left as a Seattle Mariner. He was their poster child, even when he wasn't a Mariner. Ken Griffey Jr. will be greatly missed in the game of baseball, and it is a shame his retirement seemed to have gone unnoticed! Junior, I have your rookie card, and I have a poster of you. You were my favorite player, and I will miss you in the game of baseball! Thanks for all the memories!
May 31, 2010
Cold Competition
First I want to start with something many of you are familiar with: Cold Showers. Whether you like them or not, there is an art to taking a cold shower. Sometimes cold showers are forced, via no hot water, but there are times when it feels good to take a cold shower. Forced showers are never good! Unless, of course you anticipate there being no hot water, so you go outside and work up a sweat. In that case, cold showers can be good, and that kind of falls into the non-forced cold shower. Now, there are times to never ever take a cold shower. One time is in the winter. No matter how hot you think you are, it is never hot enough to combine the cold from outside and the cold from the water trickling down your back. I would also consider one scenario to be a double whammy... that scenario: a forced cold shower in the winter. If this occurs, something is wrong and you need someone to fix something!
An, on the bubble scenario occurs with the wake-up call. Some people respond extremely well to cold water in the morning, I am not one of those people. My showers have to hot! This is why this scenario is on the bubble. Some people like it, others hate it... it's your call!
Now for the non-forced cold showers. These are good, but there is a complete art to having a good shower. For instance, say you are sweating really bad, and you really need a cold shower because you are hot. When you get in the shower, you have to start on hot, and then slowly move colder and colder. Granted you might be hot for the first few minutes, but if you were to turn the cold on right from the start, then you will be so shocked and you won't take a correct shower. For half the shower, you're probably still sweating, but it will be ok, because the colder you get, your body temperature will go down. So, here's the kicker... your shower needs to last at least 10-15 minutes to allow ample time for decreasing body temp. When you find a good cold temperature, keep it there. The water should not be to the point of coldness you are struggling to breath. Find a good temp, and keep it there. Do your cleaning, but don't rush! Everyone is always in a rush nowadays, and when you're taking a shower like this, you cannot rush! Also, the water has to be cold enough to stop your sweating because once you get out of the shower, you don't want to still be sweating. And another thing, the water can't be to the point where it's so cold, you're shivering during and after the shower, because then you cannot enjoy the sacred shower.
Hopefully after reading that, you will be fully prepared for the next time you are either forced, or in need of a cold shower.
DISCLAIMER: If it doesn't work, don't hate on me!
Now for the serious subject...
I talked a little bit about competition in my last post, but I feel competition is such a huge thing, I need to go more in depth. There is good competition, for lack of a better word there is middle competition, and there is bad competition.
We'll start with the good competition. Competition is such a huge part of life! There is competition every where you look. Business is a competition, your sports teams are competitive, and you compete for jobs by going through school and trying to prove you are the best person for a job. These are all good competition! It is perfectly acceptable in each these cases, to go out and prove to others who you are. It's okay to show others you're the best in these situations. Actually, it's more than okay!
Middle competition is good and bad. If you are with your friends, playing a game, no matter what game it is, you can one of two ways... The first, be competitive, but not overly competitive! You can't be the first one to dive for a ball. I repeat: YOU CAN'T BE THE FIRST PERSON TO DIVE FOR A BALL. It just isn't right. If you are the first one to dive, you come off as way too competitive, even if people are laughing, they know you're way too competitive. You also can't get mad. What I like to do now, as I am growing up, is crowd control. I try not to let myself get upset over a silly little game. If I mess up, I say I'm sorry so my teammates don't think I don't care. It is essential however, to show you care about what is going on in the game. That is also another crowd control technique. Like I said, middle competition is good and bad. It can be a lot of fun, but it can also turn sour really quick.
I take back what I said before about the three types of competition. The last type isn't just bad, it is the absolute worst type of competition!! For this I will separate into a men's and women's subject. Both need to be addressed because sadly, both are intertwined. In case you haven't guessed it, the worst competition comes from relationships, or the start of relationships.
WOMEN- It is essential for you to not play with a guy. First off, guys have no idea what is happening in the first place. Secondly, it is just completely unnecessary! So ladies, if there is another guy, be up front. Say there is another guy, don't lead anyone on. It's important to know who else is out there. If the guy really likes you, he'll stay around and keep talking to you. Why? Beats me, that's just how we are! But, the absolute worst thing you could do to another guy is to act like nothing is going on. And by that I mean, acting like there isn't another guy that you will most likely run back to after you go to dinner. If the guy wants to know something, he'll ask around, we're aren't that stupid. Chances are the guy will find out sooner or later, and it's important ladies, for him to hear it from you sooner rather than later. If you are lucky, he'll hang around, chances are, well I have no idea because we all different!
MEN- Do right. That is my motto in life. What do I mean by that? I mean do whatever it is you think is right. If a girl tells you there is another guy, there are two ways to handle it. First Option: Talk to her! You need to hear it from her. But, understand that once you talk to her, things will be different. Once you talk to her, you two will either be further on the path to a relationship or you will be even more distant than you were before you two even knew each other. If the latter happens, don't expect that to change down the road when the guy is out of the picture. Second Option: Be proactive! If you choose to go this route, there are repercussions. You can pour your heart out to the girl, and one of two things will happen. She will be accepting and choose you. Or, she could completely reject you. Just as long as you know, if you choose this option, its make it or break it, up or down, red light green light.
Personally, I don't know which is the right choice. I think you have to be proactive, but you also need to talk to her. Let's be honest, no girl is actually torn between two guys. Once you get to that point, you have essentially already lost. It's you or him, and now you're competing. If you have to compete for someone, all hope is lost. Competition in relationships never work. Some people respond well to competition, and some people completely shut down. In my opinion guys, although I know this is unbelievably hard to, if there is another guy... sure, say something, talk about it, but then you have to move on. You can't sit and wait for something that has left and is never coming back. First off, if she doesn't choose you from the start and allows another guy to come in, she doesn't deserve you. You were there, but obviously you aren't good enough. Well, here is what I say. Don't put yourselves in a position to get hurt. End of story, problem solved. If you don't put yourself in that position in the first place, this won't happen.
Of course, roles could be reversed....
Next post I will be talking about "just" nice guys...
An, on the bubble scenario occurs with the wake-up call. Some people respond extremely well to cold water in the morning, I am not one of those people. My showers have to hot! This is why this scenario is on the bubble. Some people like it, others hate it... it's your call!
Now for the non-forced cold showers. These are good, but there is a complete art to having a good shower. For instance, say you are sweating really bad, and you really need a cold shower because you are hot. When you get in the shower, you have to start on hot, and then slowly move colder and colder. Granted you might be hot for the first few minutes, but if you were to turn the cold on right from the start, then you will be so shocked and you won't take a correct shower. For half the shower, you're probably still sweating, but it will be ok, because the colder you get, your body temperature will go down. So, here's the kicker... your shower needs to last at least 10-15 minutes to allow ample time for decreasing body temp. When you find a good cold temperature, keep it there. The water should not be to the point of coldness you are struggling to breath. Find a good temp, and keep it there. Do your cleaning, but don't rush! Everyone is always in a rush nowadays, and when you're taking a shower like this, you cannot rush! Also, the water has to be cold enough to stop your sweating because once you get out of the shower, you don't want to still be sweating. And another thing, the water can't be to the point where it's so cold, you're shivering during and after the shower, because then you cannot enjoy the sacred shower.
Hopefully after reading that, you will be fully prepared for the next time you are either forced, or in need of a cold shower.
DISCLAIMER: If it doesn't work, don't hate on me!
Now for the serious subject...
I talked a little bit about competition in my last post, but I feel competition is such a huge thing, I need to go more in depth. There is good competition, for lack of a better word there is middle competition, and there is bad competition.
We'll start with the good competition. Competition is such a huge part of life! There is competition every where you look. Business is a competition, your sports teams are competitive, and you compete for jobs by going through school and trying to prove you are the best person for a job. These are all good competition! It is perfectly acceptable in each these cases, to go out and prove to others who you are. It's okay to show others you're the best in these situations. Actually, it's more than okay!
Middle competition is good and bad. If you are with your friends, playing a game, no matter what game it is, you can one of two ways... The first, be competitive, but not overly competitive! You can't be the first one to dive for a ball. I repeat: YOU CAN'T BE THE FIRST PERSON TO DIVE FOR A BALL. It just isn't right. If you are the first one to dive, you come off as way too competitive, even if people are laughing, they know you're way too competitive. You also can't get mad. What I like to do now, as I am growing up, is crowd control. I try not to let myself get upset over a silly little game. If I mess up, I say I'm sorry so my teammates don't think I don't care. It is essential however, to show you care about what is going on in the game. That is also another crowd control technique. Like I said, middle competition is good and bad. It can be a lot of fun, but it can also turn sour really quick.
I take back what I said before about the three types of competition. The last type isn't just bad, it is the absolute worst type of competition!! For this I will separate into a men's and women's subject. Both need to be addressed because sadly, both are intertwined. In case you haven't guessed it, the worst competition comes from relationships, or the start of relationships.
WOMEN- It is essential for you to not play with a guy. First off, guys have no idea what is happening in the first place. Secondly, it is just completely unnecessary! So ladies, if there is another guy, be up front. Say there is another guy, don't lead anyone on. It's important to know who else is out there. If the guy really likes you, he'll stay around and keep talking to you. Why? Beats me, that's just how we are! But, the absolute worst thing you could do to another guy is to act like nothing is going on. And by that I mean, acting like there isn't another guy that you will most likely run back to after you go to dinner. If the guy wants to know something, he'll ask around, we're aren't that stupid. Chances are the guy will find out sooner or later, and it's important ladies, for him to hear it from you sooner rather than later. If you are lucky, he'll hang around, chances are, well I have no idea because we all different!
MEN- Do right. That is my motto in life. What do I mean by that? I mean do whatever it is you think is right. If a girl tells you there is another guy, there are two ways to handle it. First Option: Talk to her! You need to hear it from her. But, understand that once you talk to her, things will be different. Once you talk to her, you two will either be further on the path to a relationship or you will be even more distant than you were before you two even knew each other. If the latter happens, don't expect that to change down the road when the guy is out of the picture. Second Option: Be proactive! If you choose to go this route, there are repercussions. You can pour your heart out to the girl, and one of two things will happen. She will be accepting and choose you. Or, she could completely reject you. Just as long as you know, if you choose this option, its make it or break it, up or down, red light green light.
Personally, I don't know which is the right choice. I think you have to be proactive, but you also need to talk to her. Let's be honest, no girl is actually torn between two guys. Once you get to that point, you have essentially already lost. It's you or him, and now you're competing. If you have to compete for someone, all hope is lost. Competition in relationships never work. Some people respond well to competition, and some people completely shut down. In my opinion guys, although I know this is unbelievably hard to, if there is another guy... sure, say something, talk about it, but then you have to move on. You can't sit and wait for something that has left and is never coming back. First off, if she doesn't choose you from the start and allows another guy to come in, she doesn't deserve you. You were there, but obviously you aren't good enough. Well, here is what I say. Don't put yourselves in a position to get hurt. End of story, problem solved. If you don't put yourself in that position in the first place, this won't happen.
Of course, roles could be reversed....
Next post I will be talking about "just" nice guys...
May 30, 2010
"Streak"-ing
So when is a streak, not a streak anymore? Isn't it possible to just hit a great form and play like for an extended amount of time? Take the Reds for example. Are they streaking right now? Are they only good during this so called streak? The answer is quite simple no! To be honest, the Reds are a good baseball team. They are playing as well as I expected them to be playing. The have a really young nucleus and it was only a matter of time before they started playing this well together. To me, the Reds were on a winning streak to make it to .500. Now, they are just good. Their morale is up, everyone is hitting, pitchers are pitching...with the exception of Nick Masset. Side note on Masset: I'm assuming it is only a matter of time before he gets sent down to Triple-A Louisville.
So, please stop saying the Reds are streaking! Were they at one point? YES Are they now? NO! They are just good.
Now, on to a more serious subject....
Risk- exposure to the chance of injury or loss; a hazard or dangerous chance: It's not worth the risk.
That is the definition of risk above. Why in the world would anyone want to do that? Nothing about that definition shows promise. If you find yourself in a situation where you need to take a risk, for example with a girl, you have already lost! At that point, all hope is lost!! Time for some advice: Get to a point with whomever it is you like, where asking to do something isn't taking a risk. Once you hit that point, you win in the game of life! Alright, that may be a bit exaggerated, but seriously, you do win the game. Let's be honest, it is a game. It's a big game, with little games in between. And once you reach that point, the hard work is done, and you are smooth sailing. The problem: getting to that point. The solution: This was hard for me to think of, but I think the most important thing you need to get to that point is honesty! Maybe even not honesty with the other person, but honesty within yourself. By that I mean, you have to know who you are, what you are looking for, and most importantly what you want. There is a common factor between each segment of the last sentence. YOU. It really isn't about the other person, things will fall into place, insert cliche comment here.... if it's meant to be. It really is about yourself, your own person, and who you are.
Oh, and another thing! Competition sucks! If you have to compete, drop out of the race, it's not worth it! Move on, and find someone who wants you... that is all
So, please stop saying the Reds are streaking! Were they at one point? YES Are they now? NO! They are just good.
Now, on to a more serious subject....
Risk- exposure to the chance of injury or loss; a hazard or dangerous chance: It's not worth the risk.
That is the definition of risk above. Why in the world would anyone want to do that? Nothing about that definition shows promise. If you find yourself in a situation where you need to take a risk, for example with a girl, you have already lost! At that point, all hope is lost!! Time for some advice: Get to a point with whomever it is you like, where asking to do something isn't taking a risk. Once you hit that point, you win in the game of life! Alright, that may be a bit exaggerated, but seriously, you do win the game. Let's be honest, it is a game. It's a big game, with little games in between. And once you reach that point, the hard work is done, and you are smooth sailing. The problem: getting to that point. The solution: This was hard for me to think of, but I think the most important thing you need to get to that point is honesty! Maybe even not honesty with the other person, but honesty within yourself. By that I mean, you have to know who you are, what you are looking for, and most importantly what you want. There is a common factor between each segment of the last sentence. YOU. It really isn't about the other person, things will fall into place, insert cliche comment here.... if it's meant to be. It really is about yourself, your own person, and who you are.
Oh, and another thing! Competition sucks! If you have to compete, drop out of the race, it's not worth it! Move on, and find someone who wants you... that is all
May 27, 2010
The Milk Dynasty
Well, it's quite some time since the last post, and I am bringing bad news along with a new post. It's pretty clear, at least for me to see, that the idea of 'The Walk' was going to crash and burn, though I didn't think it would burnout as soon as it did. So, I am discontinuing the walk conversations because since the last post, I haven't taken one single walk.
What have I been doing instead of posting, you ask? Not much of anything really. I have been trying to watch as many movies as possible. I am really getting into music too. I find myself slowly moving away from watching tv, and listening to more music.
I am really going to make an effort this time to stay on top of my game with this blog. My recent posts haven't been held at the same standard as the posts from when I first started this thing, and that will change, starting now. I will now go back, or at least try to go back to the writing style used when I first started.
This post, I would like to talk about milk. Yes, milk. Milk comes in all different sizes, and kinds. There is the pint, half-gallon, and the full gallon. Milk is 2%, 1%, skim, soy, and even chocolate. Milk is greatly taken for granted, by just about everyone I know. What does milk do? The real question is what doesn't milk do. It's the best part of cereal, aside from the cereal itself. Milk makes your bones strong. And, milk is a dipper. Yea, cookies, oreos, and even donuts at times. Just think, if there was not any milk, there is nothing. Milk is everything!
I would talk about BP, but I think they have been bashed enough for their recent wrongdoings.
Weak post this time, I know. I apologize, but be on the lookout for more frequent posts, and better posts.
What have I been doing instead of posting, you ask? Not much of anything really. I have been trying to watch as many movies as possible. I am really getting into music too. I find myself slowly moving away from watching tv, and listening to more music.
I am really going to make an effort this time to stay on top of my game with this blog. My recent posts haven't been held at the same standard as the posts from when I first started this thing, and that will change, starting now. I will now go back, or at least try to go back to the writing style used when I first started.
This post, I would like to talk about milk. Yes, milk. Milk comes in all different sizes, and kinds. There is the pint, half-gallon, and the full gallon. Milk is 2%, 1%, skim, soy, and even chocolate. Milk is greatly taken for granted, by just about everyone I know. What does milk do? The real question is what doesn't milk do. It's the best part of cereal, aside from the cereal itself. Milk makes your bones strong. And, milk is a dipper. Yea, cookies, oreos, and even donuts at times. Just think, if there was not any milk, there is nothing. Milk is everything!
I would talk about BP, but I think they have been bashed enough for their recent wrongdoings.
Weak post this time, I know. I apologize, but be on the lookout for more frequent posts, and better posts.
April 13, 2010
The Walk: Day 2
Day 2
The joy of star gazing. It is a moment when all else is thrown out in your mind and focus one thing and one thing only....stars. Ever seen a shooting star? Me neither! One day I hope to see one. That is one thing that can never be taken for advantage. It isn't a guarantee you will ever see one in your lifetime so I encourage you to spend some time looking up in the sky during the night time and embracing the gift. The gift of freedom, joy, fun, and life. Just go out one night and enjoy the night sky with your friends.
Experience something new. It is a goal of ours to go walk to different places, places in particular we haven't been. Set apart your fears and venture into the unknown and enjoy whatever it is you come across. Also, things are very different in the daylight compared to what they look like in the nighttime. Do both! See that one building both at night and in the day and see they differences. It's mesmerizing...
On a side note from the walk... I mean our walk tonight was awesome! It was two hours long, completely awesome, but there wasn't anything specific we talked about so I'm a little speechless right now, so we're moving on to different topics.
A lot of things change as you grow up from high school to being a college student. Most notably, at least for me anyways, is the terminology. I mean really, it's like an unwritten rule in college that everything has to be spoken about in a more sophisticated manner. Case in point, in high school, everything was referred to as tests and quizzes. In college, everything is an exam, with an occasional quiz in there. Once you hit college, there is no such thing as tests anymore. Even better example is in high school, what did you call the person who taught your class? A teacher. In college the people who teach your classes are more times than not, professors, or even doctors. See, more sophisticated language.
And on another note, it is truly important that you have a friend who has good music. As long as you have good music, even if it did come from your friend, you will still be viewed as cool!
Day 3 to come soon...
"A true friend never gets in your way unless you happen to be going down." --Arnold H. Glasow
The joy of star gazing. It is a moment when all else is thrown out in your mind and focus one thing and one thing only....stars. Ever seen a shooting star? Me neither! One day I hope to see one. That is one thing that can never be taken for advantage. It isn't a guarantee you will ever see one in your lifetime so I encourage you to spend some time looking up in the sky during the night time and embracing the gift. The gift of freedom, joy, fun, and life. Just go out one night and enjoy the night sky with your friends.
Experience something new. It is a goal of ours to go walk to different places, places in particular we haven't been. Set apart your fears and venture into the unknown and enjoy whatever it is you come across. Also, things are very different in the daylight compared to what they look like in the nighttime. Do both! See that one building both at night and in the day and see they differences. It's mesmerizing...
On a side note from the walk... I mean our walk tonight was awesome! It was two hours long, completely awesome, but there wasn't anything specific we talked about so I'm a little speechless right now, so we're moving on to different topics.
A lot of things change as you grow up from high school to being a college student. Most notably, at least for me anyways, is the terminology. I mean really, it's like an unwritten rule in college that everything has to be spoken about in a more sophisticated manner. Case in point, in high school, everything was referred to as tests and quizzes. In college, everything is an exam, with an occasional quiz in there. Once you hit college, there is no such thing as tests anymore. Even better example is in high school, what did you call the person who taught your class? A teacher. In college the people who teach your classes are more times than not, professors, or even doctors. See, more sophisticated language.
And on another note, it is truly important that you have a friend who has good music. As long as you have good music, even if it did come from your friend, you will still be viewed as cool!
Day 3 to come soon...
"A true friend never gets in your way unless you happen to be going down." --Arnold H. Glasow
April 11, 2010
Confidence breeds...
What exactly is it that confidence breeds? Is it success, is it character, is it confidence? First off, let's talk about the word confidence. Confidence isn't about being obnoxious, nor is about being pompous, but confidence is about believing in yourself! It's about trust. It's about trusting yourself to carry on with whatever decision you just made and accept the decision the was the right one. It's about shooting for the stars, and if you fall down, you'll get back up and try again. It's something everyone should have. It's something everyone needs.
Guy's, there is no such thing as a girl who is out of your league. That's not right, you are equals. You're on each other's levels. Don't ever let that be a barrier for anything you do.
If you want to be an astronaut, have the confidence that you can be an astronaut, and nothing is going to stop you from doing so.
So, what does confidence breed? It breeds confidence, success, and character. If you are confident in decisions you make, then you will be successful. It's important to show people how confident you are in your work. With confidence, comes more confidence. If you are successful with something, you will become even more confident with your next decision. And finally, confidence breeds character. Confidence is an asset to your personality. Confidence shapes who you are. If you are not confident with your body, you will shelter yourself, which becomes a part of your personality. So, be willing to put yourself out there, and whatever you do in life, be confident because that confidence becomes your character, or who you are.
I've decided to start sort of a project... I am going on walks with friends and picking out some of the most important things we talk about, at least from my personal view point. It's not going to be about our talks, because those are personal, and confidential, but it will be about some parts of what we talked about. For instance, tonight on our walk, one person said you needed confidence to do whatever it is he was talking about, so I wrote about what confidence meant to me. Pretty simple really... anyway, this is day one!
These walks, there guys only. It may sound a little non manly, but certain things get said that not everyone can know. It's a version of 'girl talk' except with guys. It really truly amazing to be able to go on a walk and just speak your mind and not have anyone care about what you say. It's a time when you don't get judged by anyone. It's peaceful! It's a time to clear your mind and not worry about anything. No homework, no girls, no parents, just friends who you can talk to. Don't get me wrong, we talk about all the above, but it's just you and your guy friends talking. So these walks, there sweet. If you don't go for a walk with your buddies, you should. And don't worry, if you didn't get the chance to talk about something, there is always next time!
Guy's, there is no such thing as a girl who is out of your league. That's not right, you are equals. You're on each other's levels. Don't ever let that be a barrier for anything you do.
If you want to be an astronaut, have the confidence that you can be an astronaut, and nothing is going to stop you from doing so.
So, what does confidence breed? It breeds confidence, success, and character. If you are confident in decisions you make, then you will be successful. It's important to show people how confident you are in your work. With confidence, comes more confidence. If you are successful with something, you will become even more confident with your next decision. And finally, confidence breeds character. Confidence is an asset to your personality. Confidence shapes who you are. If you are not confident with your body, you will shelter yourself, which becomes a part of your personality. So, be willing to put yourself out there, and whatever you do in life, be confident because that confidence becomes your character, or who you are.
I've decided to start sort of a project... I am going on walks with friends and picking out some of the most important things we talk about, at least from my personal view point. It's not going to be about our talks, because those are personal, and confidential, but it will be about some parts of what we talked about. For instance, tonight on our walk, one person said you needed confidence to do whatever it is he was talking about, so I wrote about what confidence meant to me. Pretty simple really... anyway, this is day one!
These walks, there guys only. It may sound a little non manly, but certain things get said that not everyone can know. It's a version of 'girl talk' except with guys. It really truly amazing to be able to go on a walk and just speak your mind and not have anyone care about what you say. It's a time when you don't get judged by anyone. It's peaceful! It's a time to clear your mind and not worry about anything. No homework, no girls, no parents, just friends who you can talk to. Don't get me wrong, we talk about all the above, but it's just you and your guy friends talking. So these walks, there sweet. If you don't go for a walk with your buddies, you should. And don't worry, if you didn't get the chance to talk about something, there is always next time!
April 8, 2010
Sports, Pop-Tarts, and BOB
So this post is dedicated solely to sports...well at least the beginning. I realized on Saturday why I love sports. One single incident can sum this up, at least for me. Okay, there are actually two incidents. The first incident happened on Saturday when West Virginia's star player Da'Sean Butler got hurt in their game against Duke in the National Semi-finals. It is now plain to see that Butler was in pain for a good reason. That reason being a torn ACL. No, tearing his ACL is not the incident making me realize why I love sports, but the incident is what happened directly after Butler got hurt.
Now, let me first say I am not a fan of Bob Huggins for obvious reasons, but that is for another day. Huggins went on to the court to console the ailing Butler, and console he did. It looked as if Huggins was about to give Butler a kiss. That didn't happen, but that is how close Huggins was to his best player. The reason why I love sports is the bond. It's a bond between a player, and another player. It's a building of a family. A brotherhood, if you will. I swear, when you play sports, you know more about your teammates than you do about yourself. You build such friendships with others, maybe even relationships that will last a lifetime.
Not only do you build friendships with other players, but building a relationship with the coaches might even be a better thing. Becoming close with a coach is glorious. The relationship between player and coach a bond of two people unlike any other. It's a friendship, a mentor-mentee type deal. If you have ever played sports, and ave become close with a coach, you know what I mean.
Now for non-sports things...
Pop-Tarts, I have an idea for you, but let it be known to the whole world....I came up with this idea first so if Kellogg's does this, I am demanding at least 40% of the total profit. I say only 40% because I feel it necessary to give Kellogg's more than a 50% share due to the fact they have built their name from scratch. Now, to the idea... Here's my pitch.
Looking to boost your sales through Pop-Tarts? Need something to contend with Toaster Strudels? Simple change is needed. Since you can't move to the croissant like layers like the Toaster Strudel, use the same outer layering currently used in Pop-Tarts, but change the inside. It makes sense to attract the parents of kids who love Pop-Tarts, therefore, make the filling inside a real fruit filling. The artificial flavoring currently used isn't make the cut. It is time for change. All you need to do is make the filling real fruit. It would essentially taste the same, but the brand itself would be more healthy, which would catch the attention of parents. Not only are Pop-Tarts a quick "on-the-go" breakfast food, but now with real fruit filling, it's also a healthy breakfast food.
Let's talk B.O.B. The man is on fire. If you haven't heard his songs, you need to go to YouTube and look him up. The guy is going to hit it big. He is already making a splash in the hip hop music industry... and by a 'splash,' I mean a 20 foot wave that is taking over hip hop. His first album is being released on April 27th. Go to the stores and pick it up! One of his new songs is called "Don't Let Me Fall." Check it out! He's the next big thing.
EA Sports has decided to postpone the making of anymore NCAA College Basketball games. If you have read my blog for some time, you should know I bashed EA Sports for putting out such a bad product... I win.
Moving to sports games.... When you get professional sports games, you can either start a franchise, or create a player and work your way to the pros. It's evident which one has the best create a player and work your way to the pros feature. But first, let's look at the ones not making the grade.
Madden 2010 - Seems as if nothing has changed. Quite boring to be honest with you. Extremely repetitive and you lose sight of what the main goal is of the 'Superstar' feature. One thing that is new with Madden 2010 is that you can take a real life rookie and play as him throughout his career, but the gameplay is still pretty boring. Overall: bad
NCAA Football 2010 - Seems to be progressing, but it's not quite there yet. Added features such as playing throughout the high school playoffs in order to receive scholarship offers from schools based on your performance. Added real-life people talking about your performance which is cool. Overall: pretty good
MLB 2010: The Show: Has a nice feature called 'Road To The Show.' Nice feature, with definite improvement from last year's feature. This year's game includes 20-pitch training sessions helping your player to develop faster. The gameplay is nice, but it is hard to develop your player. It is very time consuming, and quite frankly, I don't have the time. Overall: I'm sticking to the Franchise mode, but you can venture out to the 'RTTS' mode and see how far you get before the repetition becomes sickening.
Now for the best...
NBA 2k10: For some reason, once you start the MyPlayer feature, it's hard to quit. The suspense is there, the drive to achieve greatness is there, and the most importantly the gameplay is there. You get judged basically on everything you do, so make sure you make the right decisions, not only for you, but for the team. Overall: The Best!
"All lasting business is built on friendship" -- Alfred A. Montapert
Now, let me first say I am not a fan of Bob Huggins for obvious reasons, but that is for another day. Huggins went on to the court to console the ailing Butler, and console he did. It looked as if Huggins was about to give Butler a kiss. That didn't happen, but that is how close Huggins was to his best player. The reason why I love sports is the bond. It's a bond between a player, and another player. It's a building of a family. A brotherhood, if you will. I swear, when you play sports, you know more about your teammates than you do about yourself. You build such friendships with others, maybe even relationships that will last a lifetime.
Not only do you build friendships with other players, but building a relationship with the coaches might even be a better thing. Becoming close with a coach is glorious. The relationship between player and coach a bond of two people unlike any other. It's a friendship, a mentor-mentee type deal. If you have ever played sports, and ave become close with a coach, you know what I mean.
Now for non-sports things...
Pop-Tarts, I have an idea for you, but let it be known to the whole world....I came up with this idea first so if Kellogg's does this, I am demanding at least 40% of the total profit. I say only 40% because I feel it necessary to give Kellogg's more than a 50% share due to the fact they have built their name from scratch. Now, to the idea... Here's my pitch.
Looking to boost your sales through Pop-Tarts? Need something to contend with Toaster Strudels? Simple change is needed. Since you can't move to the croissant like layers like the Toaster Strudel, use the same outer layering currently used in Pop-Tarts, but change the inside. It makes sense to attract the parents of kids who love Pop-Tarts, therefore, make the filling inside a real fruit filling. The artificial flavoring currently used isn't make the cut. It is time for change. All you need to do is make the filling real fruit. It would essentially taste the same, but the brand itself would be more healthy, which would catch the attention of parents. Not only are Pop-Tarts a quick "on-the-go" breakfast food, but now with real fruit filling, it's also a healthy breakfast food.
Let's talk B.O.B. The man is on fire. If you haven't heard his songs, you need to go to YouTube and look him up. The guy is going to hit it big. He is already making a splash in the hip hop music industry... and by a 'splash,' I mean a 20 foot wave that is taking over hip hop. His first album is being released on April 27th. Go to the stores and pick it up! One of his new songs is called "Don't Let Me Fall." Check it out! He's the next big thing.
EA Sports has decided to postpone the making of anymore NCAA College Basketball games. If you have read my blog for some time, you should know I bashed EA Sports for putting out such a bad product... I win.
Moving to sports games.... When you get professional sports games, you can either start a franchise, or create a player and work your way to the pros. It's evident which one has the best create a player and work your way to the pros feature. But first, let's look at the ones not making the grade.
Madden 2010 - Seems as if nothing has changed. Quite boring to be honest with you. Extremely repetitive and you lose sight of what the main goal is of the 'Superstar' feature. One thing that is new with Madden 2010 is that you can take a real life rookie and play as him throughout his career, but the gameplay is still pretty boring. Overall: bad
NCAA Football 2010 - Seems to be progressing, but it's not quite there yet. Added features such as playing throughout the high school playoffs in order to receive scholarship offers from schools based on your performance. Added real-life people talking about your performance which is cool. Overall: pretty good
MLB 2010: The Show: Has a nice feature called 'Road To The Show.' Nice feature, with definite improvement from last year's feature. This year's game includes 20-pitch training sessions helping your player to develop faster. The gameplay is nice, but it is hard to develop your player. It is very time consuming, and quite frankly, I don't have the time. Overall: I'm sticking to the Franchise mode, but you can venture out to the 'RTTS' mode and see how far you get before the repetition becomes sickening.
Now for the best...
NBA 2k10: For some reason, once you start the MyPlayer feature, it's hard to quit. The suspense is there, the drive to achieve greatness is there, and the most importantly the gameplay is there. You get judged basically on everything you do, so make sure you make the right decisions, not only for you, but for the team. Overall: The Best!
"All lasting business is built on friendship" -- Alfred A. Montapert
March 30, 2010
Reds and other things
Alright, so it's been awhile, yea? Sorry about that! I'm not even going to try and make an excuse, because really, I messed up. I apologize! This post is going to be nothing short of amazing, and I promise, it will be long. Therefore, if you aren't down to read the whole thing, then come back another day when you're ready for this. Ready yet? I don't care, here we go:
It's not all going to be about baseball, so if you don't want to read about baseball, skip to the next part. To start, I want to say I absolutely cannot wait for baseball season to start. This is the one time of year when Reds fans can bask in the glory of winning of games. The first month of the MLB season is the best, and here's why... For that first month, the Reds are still in the hunt, which means every is a step closer to being in the hunt. By the time the All-Star break comes around, the Reds are in the hunt, but they aren't 'in the hunt.' Indians fans should know what I'm talking about. Anyway, later in the year, and I mean later in the year, the wins the Reds have are just sympathy wins. They don't win because they're good, they win because they get lucky. I mean come on, it's been forever since the Reds have had a 100-win year, and I don't see it happening this year.
Prediction: Will the Reds win the NL Central? Well, plainly put, the answer is no. Will the Reds be a contender in the NL Central? Again the answer is no. Although, it depends on how good the Cubs and Cardinals are this year...but still, no, they will not be contenders. Do the Reds have a shot at winning the Wild Card. Now that, is the question. They can't contend with the Cardinals, Cubs, or Dodgers. So, the answer is...well I don't have an answer for that. It is definitely a possibility. The Reds have talent, and they have made strides to get better. Overall, they have gotten better over the off-season.
They have four solid pitchers. Granted, Edinson Volquez is coming off of a season-ending shoulder surgery from last year. I'm hopeful, he'll be as good as he was before he got hurt. Bronson Arroyo should be the Opening Day starter, but he didn't want to do it. But, he should be as consistent as ever, meaning he'll struggle early, give up a lot of homers, and then settle down and be one of the best pitchers in the Majors. Bronson turns down the Opening Day job, which ultimately leaves Aaron Harang to be the starter. Harang has been pretty consistent in recent years, and not in a good way. 3 years ago, he should have won the Cy Young award, 2 years ago, he was awful, and last year, he was awful. Let's hope he finds his old form and pitches like he did 3 years ago. He is the cornerstone for this young pitching staff. If he starts strong, and is consistent with winning and quality starts, then the others will follow. Johnny Cueto is a good young pitcher. He needs to find one more pitch because he can't survive on just a fastball, slider, and changeup. He needs a curve of some sort, and if not that, how about a sinker or splitter. When he is the on the mound, it's evident he gets upset. He needs to be able to control himself on the mound and not get down when he gives up a big hit. As soon as he gets down, he falls apart, and the Reds can't have this year. The missing link is the 5th pitcher in the rotation. Not sure what to do with this spot. They need to either go out and find someone to the spot, or give it to Homer Bailey and go on the roller coaster ride. If he is anything like he was at the end of the season last year, he will be a good pitcher. His splitter has made a huge difference. The record of the team will basically go positively or negatively depending on those 5 people.
Another key part to this season is health! As long as people stay healthy, the Reds should be fine this year.
Now onto bigger and better things... If you haven't heard, the Duke Blue Devils made the Final Four for the first time in 6 years. It's about time! Go Duke!
The Women's tournament is also coming down to the Final Four, but the only two teams that really matter are Connecticut and Baylor. Connecticut for obvious reasons-they don't lose, literally, and then there is Baylor. Baylor has a girl who is 6'8". She's huge. And Good.
Alaskan police shows are more entertaining than you would think.
The First 48 is one of the greatest shows ever made.
I actually have nothing to say anymore, so...
"The folly of one man is the fortune of another." -- Sir Francis Bacon
It's not all going to be about baseball, so if you don't want to read about baseball, skip to the next part. To start, I want to say I absolutely cannot wait for baseball season to start. This is the one time of year when Reds fans can bask in the glory of winning of games. The first month of the MLB season is the best, and here's why... For that first month, the Reds are still in the hunt, which means every is a step closer to being in the hunt. By the time the All-Star break comes around, the Reds are in the hunt, but they aren't 'in the hunt.' Indians fans should know what I'm talking about. Anyway, later in the year, and I mean later in the year, the wins the Reds have are just sympathy wins. They don't win because they're good, they win because they get lucky. I mean come on, it's been forever since the Reds have had a 100-win year, and I don't see it happening this year.
Prediction: Will the Reds win the NL Central? Well, plainly put, the answer is no. Will the Reds be a contender in the NL Central? Again the answer is no. Although, it depends on how good the Cubs and Cardinals are this year...but still, no, they will not be contenders. Do the Reds have a shot at winning the Wild Card. Now that, is the question. They can't contend with the Cardinals, Cubs, or Dodgers. So, the answer is...well I don't have an answer for that. It is definitely a possibility. The Reds have talent, and they have made strides to get better. Overall, they have gotten better over the off-season.
They have four solid pitchers. Granted, Edinson Volquez is coming off of a season-ending shoulder surgery from last year. I'm hopeful, he'll be as good as he was before he got hurt. Bronson Arroyo should be the Opening Day starter, but he didn't want to do it. But, he should be as consistent as ever, meaning he'll struggle early, give up a lot of homers, and then settle down and be one of the best pitchers in the Majors. Bronson turns down the Opening Day job, which ultimately leaves Aaron Harang to be the starter. Harang has been pretty consistent in recent years, and not in a good way. 3 years ago, he should have won the Cy Young award, 2 years ago, he was awful, and last year, he was awful. Let's hope he finds his old form and pitches like he did 3 years ago. He is the cornerstone for this young pitching staff. If he starts strong, and is consistent with winning and quality starts, then the others will follow. Johnny Cueto is a good young pitcher. He needs to find one more pitch because he can't survive on just a fastball, slider, and changeup. He needs a curve of some sort, and if not that, how about a sinker or splitter. When he is the on the mound, it's evident he gets upset. He needs to be able to control himself on the mound and not get down when he gives up a big hit. As soon as he gets down, he falls apart, and the Reds can't have this year. The missing link is the 5th pitcher in the rotation. Not sure what to do with this spot. They need to either go out and find someone to the spot, or give it to Homer Bailey and go on the roller coaster ride. If he is anything like he was at the end of the season last year, he will be a good pitcher. His splitter has made a huge difference. The record of the team will basically go positively or negatively depending on those 5 people.
Another key part to this season is health! As long as people stay healthy, the Reds should be fine this year.
Now onto bigger and better things... If you haven't heard, the Duke Blue Devils made the Final Four for the first time in 6 years. It's about time! Go Duke!
The Women's tournament is also coming down to the Final Four, but the only two teams that really matter are Connecticut and Baylor. Connecticut for obvious reasons-they don't lose, literally, and then there is Baylor. Baylor has a girl who is 6'8". She's huge. And Good.
Alaskan police shows are more entertaining than you would think.
The First 48 is one of the greatest shows ever made.
I actually have nothing to say anymore, so...
"The folly of one man is the fortune of another." -- Sir Francis Bacon
February 26, 2010
Rants and Raves
Rant:
The first thing I want to talk about is EA Sports. I'm a pretty loyal customer when it comes to EA Sports, but lately their games are tumbling into an endless abyss of nothing. I fully understand their best game is the whole Madden Franchise, but as an entity, how can you be okay with your competition (2k9) out-dueling you. Let's talk basketball. EA has essentially been non existent in the basketball realm of sports games. It's disheartening really. I don't get it. The EA basketball games are awful compared to the 2k9 basketball games. Get your stuff together EA!
Rave:
The pentagonal prism of love is extremely intricate. But, on the bright side, everywhere you look there is someone there. It's never going to be long life with no one by your side because there is someone there for you, it just depends whether or not you find them. Don't get discouraged, you'll be fine!
Rant:
I've decided that if you need any type of relationship advice, you should come to me. I'm so good at it, but when it comes to my own relationships, not that I'm in one, I suck! It's awful...trust me.
Rave:
Ok so I have a board that I control in my buddy's room. On this board is a girl's nickname. It's kind of our own twist on "For the love of Ray J." Anyway, on this board is the girl's nickname and the initials of the guy who is crushin' on her. Well, new to the board is Lupe ( pronounced Lou Pay). We have another buddy who is crushin on Lupe and he has no idea who she is. The two guys are trying to study together, and he refuses to give his notes away, because he wants to know who is Lupe. Well, it's funny.
Rant:
What is with all this fake drama stuff on the Disney Channel, Nickelodeon, and even Cartoon Network. When I grew up, cartoons were the at the epicenter of evolution. We had Doug, Rugrats, Keenan and Kel, Are you afraid of the dark?, R. L. Stein's Goosebumps books... If you were a kid in those days, you grew up during one the best ever periods as far TV and cartoons are concerned. But now, it's a joke. Hannah Montana, Drake and Josh, all these Japanese anime cartoons. It's an absolute disgrace. You would think after the epic shows like those good ones listed above, the makers of shows now, would make better shows then what they are making. If you didn't understand that last sentence, I'm saying directors/producers get your act together!
Rave:
On a brighter note, baseball season is on its way. Pitchers and Catchers have reported to training camp. I can't wait till opening day in Cincinnati. I will be taking off school that day to watch the Reds whoop the Cardinals.
Rave:
I'm skipping the next rant because I ran out of things to rant on and on about. The Bengals are playing in the Hall of Fame game to kick off the beginning of pre-season play before the next football season starts. Tentative plans, as of now, are that I'm going to that game with my brother! The only problem, he's a cowboys fan...
My last quote was weak so here's a good one to 'spice' things up-
"If you wanna be lover, you've got to get with my friends, make it last forever, friendship never ends"- Spice Girls
The first thing I want to talk about is EA Sports. I'm a pretty loyal customer when it comes to EA Sports, but lately their games are tumbling into an endless abyss of nothing. I fully understand their best game is the whole Madden Franchise, but as an entity, how can you be okay with your competition (2k9) out-dueling you. Let's talk basketball. EA has essentially been non existent in the basketball realm of sports games. It's disheartening really. I don't get it. The EA basketball games are awful compared to the 2k9 basketball games. Get your stuff together EA!
Rave:
The pentagonal prism of love is extremely intricate. But, on the bright side, everywhere you look there is someone there. It's never going to be long life with no one by your side because there is someone there for you, it just depends whether or not you find them. Don't get discouraged, you'll be fine!
Rant:
I've decided that if you need any type of relationship advice, you should come to me. I'm so good at it, but when it comes to my own relationships, not that I'm in one, I suck! It's awful...trust me.
Rave:
Ok so I have a board that I control in my buddy's room. On this board is a girl's nickname. It's kind of our own twist on "For the love of Ray J." Anyway, on this board is the girl's nickname and the initials of the guy who is crushin' on her. Well, new to the board is Lupe ( pronounced Lou Pay). We have another buddy who is crushin on Lupe and he has no idea who she is. The two guys are trying to study together, and he refuses to give his notes away, because he wants to know who is Lupe. Well, it's funny.
Rant:
What is with all this fake drama stuff on the Disney Channel, Nickelodeon, and even Cartoon Network. When I grew up, cartoons were the at the epicenter of evolution. We had Doug, Rugrats, Keenan and Kel, Are you afraid of the dark?, R. L. Stein's Goosebumps books... If you were a kid in those days, you grew up during one the best ever periods as far TV and cartoons are concerned. But now, it's a joke. Hannah Montana, Drake and Josh, all these Japanese anime cartoons. It's an absolute disgrace. You would think after the epic shows like those good ones listed above, the makers of shows now, would make better shows then what they are making. If you didn't understand that last sentence, I'm saying directors/producers get your act together!
Rave:
On a brighter note, baseball season is on its way. Pitchers and Catchers have reported to training camp. I can't wait till opening day in Cincinnati. I will be taking off school that day to watch the Reds whoop the Cardinals.
Rave:
I'm skipping the next rant because I ran out of things to rant on and on about. The Bengals are playing in the Hall of Fame game to kick off the beginning of pre-season play before the next football season starts. Tentative plans, as of now, are that I'm going to that game with my brother! The only problem, he's a cowboys fan...
My last quote was weak so here's a good one to 'spice' things up-
"If you wanna be lover, you've got to get with my friends, make it last forever, friendship never ends"- Spice Girls
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