Wheelin' and Dealin'

Let's talk.... 3rd wheel. Is it okay to be a 3rd wheel? Or is it against the rules? Well, here's some insight from my point of view on the situation...

If your friend comes in and says 'hey so and so and I are going out to dinner and then we're going out to a movie,' it is not okay to jump in and say 'hey, I'm coming with.' Seriously, if this happens and you are trying to 3rd wheel, it is absolutely necessary for you to go out and get another friend so you don't have to sit alone all by yourself at night.

If your friend comes in and says 'hey so and so and I are going out to dinner and then we're going out to a movie,' it is perfectly fine for you to say 'alright, sounds fun.' It is only okay to that do once or twice. You would be a good friend if most of the time you said 'no that's alright, you guys go out and have a good time.' Sometimes they will really want you to come, and that's fine, but make sure every time they ask, you don't say yes. At some point, you might want to still go out and find another friend, you know, for the times you say no.

New subject...

Some people have problems. When they like someone, they ask others for advice. Really though, others have no say in what goes on. So, if you're looking for advice, here is mine... Stop asking for advice. When it comes down to it, you should do what you want to do. No one else's opinion should matter. At times, it may be tough to deal with the decision making, but bottom line, you gotta get over it.


Take the time to go out today and put yourself above your competition. Although you may get 'lost' with love and other such things, remember that there is competition everywhere. Don't sit back and ponder what your competitor is doing, get up and go find out. Once you know, beat him/her. Be pro-active, not re-active. If you are reactive then your competitor has you beat and they will be one step ahead of you. It doesn't hurt to go out and figure it out, and then do something to get ahead. Don't lose yourself though, because once you lose yourself, will lose the battle every time!

Until next time... do something that will put you ahead for a change!